Tuesday, July 4, 2023

Tuesday, July 4, 2023 -- Mattie died 718 weeks ago today.

Tonight's picture was taken on July 4, 2008. Literally weeks before Mattie was diagnosed with cancer. That day we took him to the DC Aquatic Gardens. This is a hidden gem in Washington, DC and its claim to fame are the priceless water lilies and lotuses. The lotuses bloom around the fourth of July and it is a magical time in the Gardens. Notice along this journey, Mattie was holding a toy car in his left hand. Not an unusual sighting! 

Quote of the day: Anyone can give up; it is the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone would expect you to fall apart, now that is true strength. ~ Chris Bradford

Given that it is Independence Day, I decided to invite my friend Ann and her husband over. Though I find my daily routine beyond exhausting, I thought it was make the day more festive if we did something different. We started the day outside by the pool. 

I got both of my parents outside today for a little bit of time. When I bought this house, my hope was that my parents would enjoy this beautiful space. Unfortunately they rarely go outside. 

Though I typically don't go in the pool, Ann convinced me to go in with her and Peter.
Despite putting on sunscreen, tonight I am burnt red like a beet. It seems to be a reminder to me..... when I do something fun, I am going to pay a price. It is a sad commentary, but that is how I feel!

While in the pool, it was wonderful. Especially since it is very hot and humid outside. Once I got out of the pool, I felt like I had a good exercise and also felt less stressed. 

Me and Peter! We have lived in this house two years now, and I think this is actually the second time I have gotten in this pool. 

Our kitchen has a big island and it makes for the perfect location to set up a buffet. 

I made a corn and tomato salad, string beans with lemon zest and mint, and a tomato, cucumber, and mozzarella salad. The nice part about this was most of the items either came from our garden or our local farmer's market. 

Shrimp and Vegetable kabob! They came out GREAT!