Sunday, July 6, 2025

Sunday, July 6, 2025

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2009. In front of us was a handmade birthday card that Mattie created for me with the help of my in-laws. Together we went on many trips to North Carolina and saw countless lighthouses. They made a replica of Bodie Light (in the Outer Banks), and formed it into a card. At that moment in time, I really thought we would have more time with Mattie. Two months after this photo was taken, Mattie died.  

Quote of the day: Disappointment is a sort of bankruptcy—the bankruptcy of a soul that expends too much in hope and expectation. ~ Eric Hoffer

When we moved into this house, my husband planted MANY rubrum lily bulbs. He did this because he knew how much I love these flowers. I love their shape, look, and fragrance! You should have seen my garden this week. I had 100s of lilies! I cut many of them and put them in the house. The rest, I cut back. The stalks are so thick and fibrous, it is truly amazing! The strength and beauty of nature!

As one friend said to me, these flowers are a tribute to the love and beauty that once defined my marriage. Ironically all that remains are the things he planted for me in the garden. 

The lilies were taking over! They are so heavy, that there was no way to effectively prop them up! I have tried trellises, tying them up to garden stakes, but nothing worked. So they instead grew side ways! 

I should mention that these lilies pop open around the Fourth of July! To me they look like fireworks, and are so well timed with the season!

When I tell you I have lilies everywhere, I am not kidding! The only sad part about the lilies are they are one hit wonders for the season. But they did not disappoint this July 4th!