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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

November 21, 2017

Monday, November 20, 2017

Monday, November 20, 2017

Tonight's picture was taken in November of 2004. Mattie was two years old and as you can see full of energy, smiles, and fun. Mattie just loved his trains and would set up tracks and trains anywhere... the tables, the floor, etc!!! At one time our home was filled with lots of activity and toys, and I will never forget the awful feeling when this energy was taken from our home. Not because Mattie got older and became a teenager, but because he died from cancer.


Quote of the day: One person caring about another represents life's greatest value. ~ Jim Rohn

Peter and I took his parents today to the Old Ebbit Grill, a DC landmark. After which we walked to the Renwick Gallery and saw an exhibit entitled, "Murder Is her Hobby: Frances Glessner Lee and the Nutshell Studies of Unexplained Death." Lee's nutshells look like dollhouse-size crime scenes. 

Now you may think this whole notion is macabre, but if you like crime drama, or like reading murder mysteries, this exhibit is for you. In fact, I passed at least four people today in the exhibit who truly put their sleuth hats on to try to piece together the story behind the visual nutshell crime scenes on display. I actually loved listening to a few people and one duo even included me into their discussion. I am a HUGE Columbo fan, so this exhibit was really right up my alley. 

As the Washington Post mentioned in their "Can you solve this grisly dollhouse murder" article..... the grisly dioramas made by Frances Glessner Lee look like the creations of a disturbed child. A doll hangs from a noose, one shoe dangling off of her stockinged foot. Another doll rests in a bathtub, apparently drowned. A third lies in bed peacefully … except for her blood-splattered head. There’s no need to call a psychiatrist, though — Lee created these works in the 1940s and ’50s as training tools for homicide investigators. Lee, who died in 1962, called her miniatures “nutshell studies” because the job of homicide investigators, according to a phrase she had picked up from detectives, is to “convict the guilty, clear the innocent and find the truth in a nutshell."  She became the first female police captain in the country, and she was regarded as an expert in the field of homicide investigation. When Lee was building her macabre miniatures, she was a wealthy heiress and grandmother in New Hampshire who had spent decades reading medical textbooks and attending autopsies. Police departments brought her in to consult on difficult cases, and she also taught forensic science seminars at Harvard Medical School, Atkinson says. Lee painstakingly constructed the dioramas for her seminars, basing them on real-life cases but altering details to protect the victims’ privacy.


This is an example of one of her nutshells. Each of the 19 nutshell structures was given a title. This one was called... "three room dwelling" (with this depicting only one of the rooms).

It's hard to see the details (of which there are MANY) but for example.........

1. Lee used red nail polish to make pools and splatters of blood.

2. Lee crocheted the tiny teddy bear near the fallen chair, so that future investigators might wonder how it landed in the middle of the floor.

3. The pattern on the floor of this room has faded over time, making the spent shotgun shell easier to find.

4. Lee knit the bureau runner and sewed the toy chairs on it in this exact state of disarray.

5. The bedroom window is open. Could it be a sign of forced entry?


The exhibit was fascinating, not to mention so was the life of Frances Lee. You come away from this exhibit asking...... what kind of life did she lead? Why was she so fascinated by murder and the investigation process? In fact, I would say the exhibit left you with more questions than answers. They did a good job displaying the dioramas and sign posting information about the case being depicted. What the exhibit fell short on was..... application! How have Lee's dioramas transformed the modern day investigation process? Walking us through one example would have been helpful. Instead, I had to come home and do research to find out that investigators even today use dioramas. Because you don't want a first time investigator seeing a real crime scene without preparation. The nutshells provide training on observational skills and critical thinking. As Lee would most likely say.... It’s not about solving the case. It’s about knowing the systematic approach. The beauty of this exhibit is the viewer has the opportunity to become a first time investigator.... where we look in on a crime scene and are given minimal information. The creativity to solve the crime now falls into our hands, and frankly I noticed two different patterns of attendees. Those who immediately came up with scenarios and hypotheses for what they saw, and then others like me, who tried to take it all in before jumping to conclusions. The exhibit is free and worth a visit.

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