A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



November 6, 2018

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Tuesday, November 6, 2018 -- Mattie died 477 weeks ago today.

Tonight's picture was taken in October of 2008. Mattie was home recovering from his first surgery and decided to create a haunted house out of tinker toys. He then decorated it with lights and other items. Though managing Mattie's cancer diagnosis was challenging, it got exponentially worse once he had surgery. No one ever prepared us for the psychological issues that would unfold. Knowing what I know now, I have to wonder how medical professionals did not even think about the psychosocial impact of limb salvaging surgeries on an active child. Surgeries that left Mattie unable to walk, toilet himself, or do the most basic activities of daily living on his own.  


Quote of the day: How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a weary world. ~ William Shakespeare


Just when I think we couldn't possibly receive more candy, we do! Candy was coming out of the wood work today and throughout the day it was pouring!!! Which made for a very difficult candy transfer from cars to the garage. 

This is Colleen and her children. They collect candy for us at the McKinley Elementary School (Brownie Troop 555 and Daisy Troop 60039) in Alrington, VA. Colleen has been collecting and sorting candy for us for several years now! 




Since today was election day, kids were home from school. I had several members of the TC Williams High School Key Club volunteer to sort today. They worked with us for 3.5 hours and they were terrific. Never complained and accomplished a ton!

In addition to these teenagers, we also had a mom and two girls from the Discovery Elementary School in Arlington, VA. They came to donate candy and sort with us for an hour. Their mom, Kristina, wanted her girls to see the production and to understand where the candy goes.
I had volunteers in shifts. 

From left to right:

Julia (Mattie went to preschool with her), her mom Suzanne, Tina, Sara Catherine (Mattie went to preschool with her), and her mom Catherine. The two little ones near the table are Charlotte and Parker. These are Margaret's (Mattie's preschool teacher) grandchildren. The candy drive is taking place at their home and everyday after school they come out and spend some time with me. It is very special for me, as I was very close to their grandmother. 

We also got a big donation today from Washington Fine Properties-- real estate agent.... Susie Gordon Maguire. Susie did a collection in her neighborhood and we are honored to accept this candy. Washington Fine Properties is also a proud Mattie Miracle Walk sponsor.  

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