Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

October 3, 2018

Wednesday, October 3, 2018

Wednesday, October 3, 2018

Tonight's picture was taken in October of 2004. Peter snapped a photo of Mattie and me walking into a fall festival. Literally every weekend in the fall, we took Mattie to a different festival. The first year we did this, Mattie was cautious. He did not want to go on the slides or participate in many of the activities. Other than pumpkin picking. But with each year and more development behind him, he gained confidence and found these activities great fun, exciting, and of course this made us happy to see Mattie so engaged. 





Quote of the day: I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the community, and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. ~ George Bernard Shaw



Peter and I are now back in DC. I would say we had a very stressful and frustrating experience! We were invited to attend a problem solving skills training. This training is designed to teach mental health professionals an evidence based model that will assist parents of children with cancer. I want to make it clear that this training has nothing to do with our standards or Mattie Miracle's work. 

Basically a research team designed a model with the intention of mental health providers using it with parents whose children have cancer. The model is to provide problem solving skills to parents. The reasoning being that providing such skills will reduce anxiety, depression, and traumatic stress. The training has been open for the last three years to social workers, psychologists, nurses and doctors. This is the first time, two non-profits were invited to attend. Prior to attending, I made it clear to the researchers that I had issues with their model and that I couldn't see it working in a clinical setting. 

Here’s the problem. The model is quite linear and in opinion rigid. It is deemed to be supportive and not therapy! Yet keep in mind the training is given to therapists. Which doesn’t make sense for multiple reasons. First and foremost is that in a hospital setting parents aren’t the patients. So there is no reimbursement pathway for these professionals to provide care beyond the child. Second there is no time in a crisis for parents to focus on writing down their problems and solutions, which is encouraged in the model! It isn’t the right setting for this, and I speak confidently on this having lived in a hospital for 14 months. Third, the researchers want clinicians to simply provide the model without incorporating their supportive care skills. It is unnatural to ask this of a trained mental health professional. 

Peter and I were honest with the researchers before attending this training given our hesitation to support their model. They thought seeing the training in person would alter our views. Unfortunately that is not what happened. Despite our best efforts to confront the researchers we got no where during the training sessions. This is the issue with designing a model in a research vacuum. It may work in a lab but it doesn’t take into account the stresses professionals are already balancing or the lack of time, energy and intense stress parents are living with inpatient and outpatient. 


So I left frustrated particularly knowing they trained 250 clinicians already and yet none of these people have been able to implement the model at their hospitals. Naturally all the way home, I kept analyzing what I said, mainly because I know what I said was discounted. I could have easily said nothing, but that did not seem genuine. 


This is a photo of the Margaret Hunt Hill suspension bridge in Dallas. It is a beauty and lit up at night. 











This is an aerial view of Dallas. It isn't anything like I imagined it to be. It is very urban and sky scrappers everywhere. Coming from a city without tall buildings, Dallas seemed like a wall of glass to me. 







 This is what Terminal D looks like at the Dallas/Fort Worth International Airport. It is artistically and aesthetically pleasing! 
Creative art everywhere!


The airport has a LiveWell Walking Path, measuring seven-tenths of a mile! It is like an airport terminal like no other..... featuring a yoga center, a walking path, and healthy food options. Not to mention tons of great shopping. Other airports could learn a lesson or two here.
The placard above pertains to this floor tile. Featured on the walking path. 
Next placard on the path. Mind you we did the whole path and also walked into the C terminal and walked all of that too. Given we sat for two days, we needed to walk. 
This is titled, Dance don't walk!
Next placard. See it tells you how many steps to the next tile!
 Entitled, Celebration!
I loved seeing these colorful plaques, the mosaic tiles, and NO crowds around us. The airport is large, so you don't feel like people are on top of you. 
 This is untitled! 
 Next placard. 





















This is "early flight." Featuring a mockingbird. 

Placard





















It's untitled!















Placard
Entitled, Floating in space, a waltz. 

I couldn't capture the placard, but this is entitled, trees! It is a beautiful tile. 
Coming into DC! 
The beauty or grayness of DC. 

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