Mattie Miracle 15th Anniversary Video

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

April 25, 2020

Saturday, April 25, 2020

Saturday, April 25, 2020

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2008. Three months before Mattie was diagnosed with cancer. If I had to give this photo a title, it would be, "our little engineer." Mattie had an early fascinating with taking things apart and putting them back together. He was actually quite amazing and working together, I can't tell you how many objects around the house we dissected! 


Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • number of people who have been diagnosed with the virus: 933,050
  • number of people who have died from the virus: 53,391


We were contacted yesterday by a childhood cancer advocate who wanted a quote from us about PTSD and childhood cancer survivors. In addition, she wanted some links to resources. In addition to what is below, I gave her six peer reviewed articles on the subject. Perhaps you know this information already, but in case you don't, it's important to remember that psychosocial issues for children with cancer (and their parents) do not end when the cancer treatment does!

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Childhood cancer is a family disease. As such there are long term psychosocial consequences that affect everyone in the family. Research shows that adolescent and young adult (AYA) survivors are at risk for developing posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and frequently report posttraumatic stress symptoms (PTSS). With up to 50% of AYA survivors reporting intrusive (recurrent and unwanted memories, flashbacks, physical reaction to a memory of the trauma), avoidant (avoiding places and thoughts), and arousal (irritability, trouble concentrating, trouble sleeping, startle easily) symptoms. However, there are also long-term psychological effects on parents of childhood cancer survivors which include anxiety and depression (20–30%), post-traumatic stress (21–44%), worry (33–75%), disease-related thoughts and feelings (13%) and decreased quality of life.

As we face the Coronavirus Pandemic on a global level, childhood cancer survivors and their families may find that they are re-experiencing many of the same feelings they thought they had already addressed, managed, or overcome. Yet, the Pandemic evokes some of these same feelings, thoughts, and behaviors we had when our child was diagnosed and in treatment. Causing us once again to live with health anxiety, fear about the future, worrying about finances, and forced to make difficult health decisions for our child and family. Childhood cancer families must never forget that we are resilient, resourceful, and we have learned under the worst of circumstances how to manage and cope with a health care crisis. This is important for us to remember as is the fact that you have built up a network over the days, months, and years since your child was diagnosed that you can tap into for support.

Resources:
https://www.chop.edu/centers-programs/center-pediatric-traumatic-stress

https://www.healthcaretoolbox.org/tools-and-resources/14-health-care-toolbox/tools-and-resources/602-covid19-children-and-families.html

https://www.healthcaretoolbox.org/tools-and-resources/surviving-cancer-competently-intervention-program.html

https://www.nctsn.org/

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