Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

January 11, 2022

Tuesday, January 11, 2022

Tuesday, January 11, 2022 -- Mattie died 641 weeks ago today. 

Tonight's picture was taken on January 17, 2009. Mattie was home from his trip to NYC and as you can see he and Peter built the Empire State Building out of a metal erector set. We bought that set at the Empire State Building gift store. That little green figure at the top was supposed to represent King Kong. Mattie absolutely loved building, creating, and had a natural understanding for how things worked and went together. Which was why I always called him our "little engineer."




Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins.

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 62,153,639
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 841,981


This morning I was getting my dad showered and dressed and the phone rang. It was the physical therapist who wanted to come over today. So I had to juggle him! He came and worked with both of my parents. However, my dad is dealing with extreme exhaustion and my mom is dealing with swollen feet. The therapist worked with them accordingly. On an aside he was telling me about a physical therapy study about the benefits of doing some exercises throughout the day, rather than at only one time per day. He gave me an example. Let's say you had four patients and patient #1 did one exercise, 20 times, at one time a day; patient #2 did one exercise, ten times, twice a day; and patient #3 did one exercise, 7 times, three times a day, that patient #3 would be in better physical shape. That the body responds to repetition and the muscles develop memory if you work them throughout the day. Fascinating no? Therefore the therapist is trying to inspire my dad to move his body throughout the day, not just hurry through his exercises in the morning and be stagnate the rest of the day. 

After walking Sunny, I then packed my parents up and we headed to Falls Church, for a doctor's visit. The doctor examined my mom's legs and feels she is dealing with Chronic Venous Insufficiency. Which is when your leg veins don't allow blood to flow back up to your heart. Normally, the valves in your veins make sure that blood flows toward your heart. But when these valves don't work well, blood can also flow backwards. This can cause blood to collect (pool) in your legs. He wants her to get an ultrasound to rule out blood clots and we will also see a cardiologist. So I will schedule these things tomorrow. But here is a photo of what Chronic Venous Insufficiency looks like. It involves varicose veins, swelling, skin color changes and ulcers (in the later stage).














I would say there is great stress in my life. As caregiving has a deep emotional component to it. At times my mom expresses she isn't happy with her life, and of course this makes my dad upset to hear. Which causes him to express his unhappiness and together at times they both say they wish they weren't alive. I of course am listening, I understand their feelings and frustrations, but try to normalize the feelings and provide hope that things will stabilize and we will get a routine together. 

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