A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



April 14, 2018

Saturday, April 14, 2018

Saturday, April 14, 2018

Tonight's picture was taken in June of 2009 at my friend Christine's home. Christine hosted a 7th birthday party for Mattie. That was his second birthday party that year...... one in the hospital and the other at Christine's. As you can see Christine's husband, James, got dressed up as a roach because he knew how much Mattie loved them, or at least loved to tease me about them! But check out the cake!!! Christine found a baker to create a cake in the shape of a roach! How do you like that????


Quote of the day: I grow plants for many reasons: to please my eye or to please my soul, to challenge the elements or to challenge my patience, for novelty or for nostalgia, but mostly for the joy in seeing them grow. ~ David Hobson


Check out our morning supervisor, Indie the cat!

Yesterday evening we bought all the plants we needed for our deck. So this morning at around 11am we began the clean up process. I am not sure what is worse cleaning up the deck from winter or planting in all of our flower pots. The verdict is out, but given that it was like a summer weather day, we knew we had to get it done today. As tomorrow it returns to gray and cooler! 

Yet it is 7pm, and we finally stopped moving for the day. An 8 hour commitment!

Here are some photos of the deck!
Seeing all the color makes us feel better, given the cold and gray winter we have had. 
The deck has all sorts of Mattie symbols and reminders on it such as butterflies, to his fountains he made me for my birthday, his wind chimes we bought together, and of course sticks and shells Mattie collected over time. 
Mattie would have loved our colorful metal gecko. You may see the orange wind chimes hanging from the basket..... they are the chimes we bought together. 

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