Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

December 12, 2018

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Tonight's picture was taken in December of 2003. We took Mattie to Los Angeles to celebrate Christmas with my parents. My mom put up a tiny tree just for Mattie. He absolutely loved decorating it and playing around it that Christmas. 





Quote of the day: It’s probably both bad and good for the brain, depending on the individual and his or her viewing habits. Many people who are socially isolated, as a result of abuse, personal quirks or developmental differences such as Asperger’s syndrome, establish social networks through their screens that would be impossible to find in person. ~ Benedict Carey


Whether you listen to the radio or the TV, we were all inundated with this week's latest research on screen time and the impact on children's brains. In a nutshell, the National Institutes of Health have financed a $300 million project that hopes to reveal how brain development is affected by a range of experiences, including substance use, concussions, and screen time. The study seems to indicate that heavy screen use (how ever that is defined) was associated with lower scores on some aptitude tests and accelerated cortical thinning. Which the article goes onto explain that this is a natural process in some children (even without screen time!).  

Whether you read the whole article or not, the bottom line is VERY LITTLE is known about the human brain, so you can be sure there is no definitive answer on how the brain could be potentially changed by screen time. The article asks whether screen addiction changes the brain and the author's answer is ............. Yes, but so does every other activity that children engage in: sleep, homework, playing soccer, arguing, growing up in poverty, reading, vaping behind the school

I am not sure that any of this information is particularly helpful to parents today, and yet I realize $300 million dollars is being spent on this longitudinal study. The research seems very focused on the anatomical/biological changes that screen time may cause the brain. Interesting! But how could these changes impact behavior? Or simply put how does screen time influence one's personality, cognitive, and emotional development? 

I don't need an NIH study to illustrate to me the detrimental impact technology is having on the next generation. You don't have to go much further than looking at your average teenager. As most of them are unable to make eye contact, to engage in communication, to even show interest in neighboring conversation, and the list goes on. This disengagement from what ultimately makes us human will not only have negative consequences on the future prospects for these teens, but unfortunately the consequences will also affect the strength and health of our society in the long-term. 


Is Screen Time Bad for Kids’ Brains?
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/10/health/screen-time-kids-psychology.html

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