A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



September 15, 2021

Wednesday, September 15, 2021

Wednesday, September 15, 2021

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2006. Mattie was four years old and for his birthday we bought him his first bicycle. Mattie was very excited and he and Peter went to pick it out! That afternoon, Peter assembled the bike and Mattie began riding in our commons area. That commons area saw a lot of Mattie firsts. 


Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins.

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 41,420,146
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 665,150


Today was another crazy day on the Farm. Again, I was up and moving at 6am. Here is a listing of today's visitors:

  1. Tile installers to fix our laundry room, because when we moved cabinetry away to fix electrical issues, we saw that the floor was not level and had two different tiles.
  2. HVAC person to fix our thermostat controller.
  3. Our electrical team to do more work and install lights by garage.
  4. Fairfax County inspector to sign off on electrical work. 
  5. Roof repair folks to begin soffit and gutter replacement. 


Here is a photo of our laundry room with the two different types of tile. Originally I was going to just try to cover up the old tile. But I decided that wasn't wise in the long run. 
The finished tile work! The person who laid the tile has been doing this for 17 years. He matched the grout color perfectly too. On Friday, the walls get repaired, so the holes will be sealed, and I am working on getting our painters back to finish off the work. 

I feel like we have faced practically every problem possible and could consult and support homeowners in our region at this point. However, in the midst of juggling this three ring circus on any given day, Peter and I are both working. Peter has a full time job and I am trying to run the Foundation. Poor Peter has been taking conference calls while running around after contractors. There are some things that I just don't get, basically anything mechanical, and Peter really has to be around for these conversations. Because unlike what we had for 27 years in DC..... on call support with electrical, heating/air, and plumbing, we don't have that here. So one of us has to understand how things work. 

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