Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

January 19, 2022

Wednesday, January 19, 2022

Wednesday, January 19, 2022

Tonight's picture was taken on January 6, 2009. This was what our living room looked like back then. Mattie got this cute little tree from the hospital and he brought it home and set it up as part of his train village. As you can see we had Legos, trains, and buildings all set up. This was not an unusual occurrence in our home even prior to cancer. Mattie was always active and gravitated to all sorts of vehicles. If it moved, it fascinated him. After Mattie died, it was a huge for us on so many level. Particularly not hearing him and seeing his projects in process throughout our home. 



Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 68,013,571
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 855,647



This morning, I got up early because I had to get myself together, breakfast made, my dad up, showered, dressed, given breakfast, started laundry, and completed cognitive exercises with my dad, prior to leaving the house at 10am. My mom had a 10:30am appointment in Arlington, VA with HealthQare for an ultrasound of her legs. If you have read my blog before then you know I am SUPER critical of most doctors and our healthcare system. Which is why when you find a well run practice, it stands out in my book. I would HIGHLY recommend HealthQare for any vascular issues. The office claims that they "
deliver exceptional, patient-centered, personalized care across all service lines. When you visit our center in Arlington, you will notice a difference the moment you arrive, starting with our friendly, welcoming staff. Our center strives to be the premier source for vascular care with a focus on patient education."

This quoted line above is not just a nicety, it is a reality. They are correct, as soon as you walk in the door, you are greeted, people working in the office seem happy and want to help you! This patient centered approach wasn't just with the admin. It was true for the ultrasound tech, the physician assistant and the physician who worked with us. They allowed me to go back into the office with my mom and they conducted a thorough ultrasound both seated and standing of her legs. Honestly we were in the office for two hours. Each and every person was kind, respectful, competent, and very patient focused. This office and practice needs to be cloned. 

The good news is there is nothing vascularly wrong with my mom. She doesn't have chronic venous insufficiently like her primary care doctor suggested. Of course we are seeing a cardiologist in two weeks to rule out heart issues, but I stick with MY first diagnosis, she overused her feet in physical therapy and this caused swelling in her ankles and foot. Right now she is wearing compression soaks to help with the swelling and we will monitor her progress. But overall, she got an excellent report. 

In the process of our three hour time away from home, we both felt better. Certainly going to a doctor is not anyone's highlight, but it actually was a major change in our routine and we did not have my dad in tow. In fact, the office would not allow him to come. Only one person was allowed with my mom. So my dad stayed at home with Peter and Peter assisted him through his occupational therapy session. Needless to say, we appreciated the diversion, getting out of the house, and interacting with cognitively intact people. 

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