A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



November 12, 2017

Sunday, November 12, 2017

Sunday, November 12, 2017

Tonight's picture was taken on November 13, 2007. It was Peter's birthday and Mattie and I always baked Peter a cake to celebrate. Mattie loved the excitement around a special occasion. Peter loves lemon cake with vanilla frosting, so that was what we always surprised him with. As you can see there were three candles on the cake..... one to represent Peter, Mattie, and me. 



Quote of the day: Was it always to be like this? she wondered. A moment of joy followed by a new sorrow? ~ Soheir Khashoggi


It is hard to believe but today was a CANDY free day! It was thrilling. However, I can't get too comfortable, as the deliveries start tomorrow. We are renting a U-Haul truck tomorrow to drive 90 minutes to Baltimore. We are delivering to Sinai Hospital, the Hackerman Patz House, and the Ronald McDonald House. It will be a full day in the truck and once that candy is unloaded, we will return to the garage and load Tuesday's deliveries into our car. Not sure what is harder, the delivery or the sorting! Delivery requires a lot of carrying and lifting!



In light of the fact that tomorrow is Peter's birthday, we chose to go out to dinner tonight. As tomorrow will be exhausting after a full day of traveling and hauling candy.

Last year, I took Peter to the Hotel Lombardy in DC, and we are returning tonight. It is becoming an annual tradition. Years ago, my parents introduced me to the waiter that works in the cafe and he still remembers my parents and treats us as if we are special. This is an old world hotel with great traditional charm! A true Foggy Bottom gem!

This is the photo I snapped of Peter last year in the Hotel's cafe. As the waiter treated Peter to chocolate mousse to celebrate. If I left it up to Peter, we wouldn't celebrate his birthday. But as I always tell him..... Mattie would not have wanted it that way!

The interior of the cafe. It is small, quaint, wonderful food and service. I particularly love not feeling rushed or having a table of people right on top of me. I will share tonight's photo of Peter, tomorrow!

1 comment:

Margy Jost said...

Vicki, seeing Mattie's smile with Peter, the cake & 3 candles makes me realize, that Mattie was a CELEBRATOR and would want Peter's birthday to carry importance as it did with him. Thank younVicki for posting these lovely pictures of Mattie & Peter on his birthday.
Your quote was beautiful & sad all at once!