Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

September 10, 2021

Friday, September 10, 2021

Friday, September 10, 2021

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2002. Mattie was three months old and that day we went over to visit Peter's brother, sister in law, and our nephews and niece. They all got a kick out of Mattie! Mattie loved taking in his world and absorbing everything around him.



Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 40,748,119
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 656,412


In 2003, I began my service on the DC Board of Professional Counseling. A licensing board is a government-regulated agency that sets the standards for the minimum qualifications needed to practice in a specific profession. In addition to writing and revising laws, the board also enforces them, so over the course of my 18 years of service I presided over countless ethical violation hearings. Some of these hearings went for 6-8 hours long, almost like a trial with a defense attorney, our government attorney, witnesses and so forth. I remember the first hearing I presided over, I was a nervous wreck. Of course with more familiarity and comfort working with the board's attorney, it got easier. Easier in terms of the mechanics of the hearing, never easier in terms of the issues and the dynamics among people in attendance. But understand that a board has the power to revoke a license, so overall it is a big responsibility. 

Since I have served in this role for 18 years, I know the history, how we have evolved, I know many of the public members who show up for the open sessions each month, and I bring to the table a vast experience working in an university training program for counselors as well as having many national leadership roles. In any case, today was the LAST board meeting I will ever attend. The Mayor selects board chairs and since I no longer live in the District of Columbia, I was in essence asked to step down. It is never easy leaving something that you like doing, that you find stimulating and rewarding, and respect the people you are serving with. The virtual meeting was four hours today and throughout the meeting, I heard many lovely comments and reflections on my service. In fact, one person who I serve with was crying that I was leaving. 

So for me it has been one thing after the other...... from packing our home in DC, donating items, going through Mattie's things again, moving to a house, dealing with the countless number of issues, repairs, workmen, the Thrivent contest last night, and today's board meeting. There is never a break, down time, time to relax and recharge, and of course today when I went out (after being cooped up for days at home) to go grocery shopping, the car had an issue. It was literally making a terrible grinding sound while I was driving it. I took my chances going shopping, but moved at a snail's pace because I was worried about the car. 

Peter returned home safely tonight from business travel for two days. He examined the car and found when it was serviced, and the catalytic converter was replaced, the dealership did not put back two bolts under the car. So another thing to have to do. I need a change of routine or a reality check. Worn out, exhausted, with no end in sight. 

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