A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



January 26, 2023

Thursday, January 26, 2023

Thursday, January 26, 2023

Tonight's picture was taken in January of 2003. Mattie was 9 months old and fully on! A friend of mine sent me this activity saucer when Mattie was 3 months old. At first I thought.... this thing was huge and would take up my entire living room (therefore I was hesitant to take it out of its box). However, I figured I would try it because Mattie was such an active live wire. At 3 months, Mattie was scared of this thing. But by month 4, he took to it like a duck to water. He loved all the noises it made, and he especially liked that he could stand up and twirl around in a full circle (as the seat rotated!). I used to keep magazines on our coffee table, but as you can see Mattie liked dumping them all over the place. 


Quote of the day: It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being. John Joseph Powell


Peter arrived in Boston today. His dad is celebrating his 89th birthday in a few days, and I am glad that he can be there for this special occasion. I know that Peter doesn't like leaving me to balance my daily routine alone, but I feel that it is important for him to check in on his parents every couple of months. 

It was a usual day of craziness on the farm. My dad's fitness trainer came over today! Teddy is a God sent. I love his energy and how he pleasantly pushes my dad. This is exactly what my dad needs, and I know this is one thing I can't do effectively. Yet it is vital for my dad's health and to keep him living safely in our home. 

While Teddy was here, I was busy changing my parents bed linens and doing laundry. After doing three loads of laundry, I was just about finished. But that was only the start of my day. I haven't mentioned it but it has been quite the week, with my dad pooping in the shower multiple days, and the bathroom floors being covered in urine. I am constantly cleaning, and cleaning, and cleaning some more. Fortunately my dad showers daily, because I think this is the major reason why I am able to keep his skin intact and in good condition. 

Meanwhile, I am honored to say that the Mattie Miracle item drive is underway! Look at this amazingly large donation that came in last night!!! 

Check out our Item Drive! All items help to stock our 4 free Snack & Item Carts at hospitals. These Carts provide toiletries, candy, snacks, and drinks to families caring for children with cancer and other life threatening illnesses. The Carts have been very well received and are in demand. 
I snapped this photo this morning. This was Indie right after Peter left for the airport. This is one depressed puss!
How do you like this? We were visited by three deer! Peter did put all the outdoor Christmas lights away, but I asked him to keep up Frosty! To me Frosty is reflective of the winter season. Apparently I am not the only one who loves Frosty. 


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