A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



March 26, 2023

Sunday, March 26, 2023

Sunday, March 26, 2023

Tonight's picture was taken in March of 2006. Mattie was almost four years old. This was a typical level of activity in our dining and living rooms. Trains, tracks, toy cars, and of course Legos. Peter and Mattie both love to build and create and so Peter did not have a big learning curve when Mattie was born. Whereas, I had to learn the art of Legos, trains, cars, and of course exploring the great outdoors. However, to this day, I still prefer being outdoors versus in, and I attribute that to Mattie. 


Quote of the day: Anyone can give up; it is the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone would expect you to fall apart, now that is true strength. ~ Chris Bradford


This is my boy outside this morning, enjoying a sunny day on the patio! Age and cancer have changed Sunny's level of activity. But his love, spirit, and devotion remain the SAME! 
Peter is in Boston, and though he had a cold and rainy day, we had close to 70 degrees and beautiful sunshine. I sent Peter a photo of his hyacinths growing beautifully!
Our pansies made it through the winter!
Signs of spring! 


Here's the highlight of my day. After I got home from taking my parents to brunch, I was getting my parents inside from the garage and the front doorbell rang. I told my mom to help my dad so I could see who it was at the door.

It turns out it was our 6 1/2 year old neighbor next door. He is a very sociable fellow. He came to me soaking wet, as he had his swim suit on and had just run through his sprinklers.  He handed me a daffodil and clearly wanted to chat. I brought him out a towel and Sunny and I must have stayed with him for an hour. I know at that age, kids like tasks and to do something. So I literally got my greens container out and he and I walked around the front yard picking up branches and sticks that fell off our river birch tree. While picking up sticks we talked about all sorts of things. We learned we both suffer from pollen allergies, we both have birthdays in July, and we both love Sunny. At that age, kids will talk about everything and all I kept saying to myself is..... Mattie taught me well! 

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