A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



February 13, 2025

Thursday, February 13, 2025

Thursday, February 13, 2025

Tonight's picture was taken in February of 2009. Mattie was pictured with a homemade frosted cupcake. In between hospital visits, I would bake two dozen mini cupcakes to bring to the hospital, and I used them as incentives. After Mattie completed a physical therapy session, he would get a cupcake. Since Mattie loved these cupcakes, it was a strategy that seemed to work! His smile said it all!



Quote of the day: Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence. ~ Vincent Van Gogh


This morning, I received an interesting email. The email was from a friend of my mom's who thought my mom had just died. Truly seeing this first thing in the morning, freaked me out. She did not explain how she learned this but wanted to reach out to me. Literally when I first read the message, I thought perhaps this was some sort of fraudulent message. But I checked and double checked and then wrote back to this friend. She did respond back to me and I wanted to find out if some sort of message was going around on social media. Turns out that wasn't the case, but naturally I wish to get down to the bottom of this, as such a rumor to me is disturbing. It is an interesting way to start the day.

It was a hard day, and I did non-stop clean up for my dad. When I entered their bedroom this morning, the smell hit me before anything else. I wish that was where it ended, but I dealt with this numerous times today. As hard as caregiving is, this pales in comparison to the other issues in my life. 

The highlight of my day was what greeted me on my doorstep! This wonderful gift of chocolate covered strawberries and treats is a reminder that I am LOVED. 




No comments: