A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



April 22, 2018

Sunday, April 22, 2018

Sunday, April 22, 2018

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2009. You may be asking yourself.... what was going on here? Well, Mattie was in his hospital room with an entourage of people having a physical therapy session. Mattie's therapy sessions were always one for the books! My joke was Mattie expanded the repertoire of his physical therapist because in order to work with Mattie, she had to think outside the box. Not only was Anna willing to work with Mattie, she approached her interactions with creativity, enthusiasm, and was always flexible given Mattie's mood and how he was physically feeling. 



Quote of the day: You can't get there by bus, only by hard work and risk and by not quite knowing what you're doing. What you'll discover will be wonderful. What you'll discover will be yourself. Alan Alda


I am not sure if I work harder during the week or on the weekend. It was a full weekend of chores. I spent part of the day on our April newsletter and the other part on staging our raffle baskets. I have five out of the 10 staged and ready to be wrapped. So I am making progress, but it is slow. 





Meanwhile, this afternoon, Peter encouraged me to get it together and go for a walk with him and Sunny. It was a great idea, as I needed a change in venue. On our way back home, we passed our local restaurant which makes their own gelato. I happened to notice a couple sitting outside eating gelato together, and I said to Peter.... wow how does that work? I told him we have to learn to sit outside and eat gelato. The weekends are usually occupied with Foundation work, so much so that there isn't time to smell the flowers/eat the gelato. I am hoping we can change that post-Walk. 

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