Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

October 14, 2021

Thursday, October 14, 2021

Thursday, October 14, 2021

Tonight's picture was taken in October of 2008. As you can see Mattie was in the Halloween spirit. In addition, you can probably see stuff piling up all around our walls. The amount of items coming into our home while Mattie was ill was beyond overwhelming. However, given I was managing Mattie's care and needs, I had no time to sort through things, organize them, and so forth. This witch's hat was given to us years before by our neighbor. Mattie liked my neighbor's hat so much that she gave it to him. 




Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 44,748,141
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 720,910


The smell coming from the shower drain is making me sick. I spent a good portion of the morning trying to track down someone who could help us with this problem. Our plumber is coming back tomorrow and the septic people are telling us that it sounds like a pipe issue and not a septic one. We shall see. 

In the mean time, I tried a home remedy of baking soda, white vinegar, and boiling water. It definitely helps with the smell, but the problem remains. 

Mid-day, I took Sunny out for a walk. He is definitely walking on all fours now, slowly, and with support, but he is doing it! Along our journey we found this cute turtle just hanging out in our neighbors yard. 

A close up! Nature is all around us here, but a turtle is a first for me. 

Later in the day, I drove to Mattie's school for a meeting. The school's community service coordinator wanted to meet with me to discuss the school's connection with Mattie Miracle and ways for students to get further involved. 

What I found fascinating is that in the service learning contact that students have with a community group/organization, it specifically says that the student can't obtain hours through administrative or clerical type work. This statement did not sit well with me, mainly because I can't think of any job out there in the real world that doesn't involve having to do some admin and clerical work. It is part of a professional's daily routine and I think an important task that students need to be educated and trained to do right from the beginning. Service learning should have a hands on component, certainly, but I think we are doing students a disservice by sugar coating the reality of work/a profession. Especially since the school is interested in cultivating students' interest in entrepreneurism and non-profit work. In many ways, I feel like I run a non-profit but also I am an entrepreneur. As with the inception of the Foundation, we incurred many personal (and still do) financial obligations and risks. 

Running a Foundation involves a great deal of administrative and organizational skills, skills I think are worth understanding, learning, and having an opportunity to practice. Yet this type of grunt work, I am sure is not attractive to the average teenager. In fact, as I told the school today, the teen age group is not my favorite to work with, mainly because it is hard to capture their interest, attention, and focus. They are pulled in so many directions with school demands, not to mention social media, and frankly developmentally they are in a place that typically revolves around through own self identity and needs. So in essence NOT a good match with service learning. 

There is also the debate of whether mandating service learning is a good way to inspire service. When did service learning become part of a high school curriculum? It certainly wasn't when I went to high school, and yet guess what?..... I did a lot of community service as a teenager. I did not get credit for it, and it did not impact my grades. I understand why schools try to integrate this into curriculum, but at the end of the day, I do think the service learning experience becomes an after thought. Or just something one has to complete in order to graduate. So despite good intentions, I don't think the requirement actually inspires one to be more community minded, giving, and to volunteer. Which makes sense, because how many of us enjoy something or are passionate about something we are required to do?  

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