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Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

April 3, 2013

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2008, during Mattie 6th birthday party. As you can see Mattie had a Scooby Doo cake (since he LOVED Scooby Doo) but his birthday theme was bowling. That year we invited all of Mattie's kindergarten class and some of his closest preschool buddies to a bowling alley. This was a party I will never forget. During the party Mattie began running an 101 fever and what I learned is it is a lot harder to contain children at a bowling alley than you may think! I remember after that party was over Mattie literally went home and passed out on the couch! Which was HIGHLY unusual for Mattie. He only did this when he was very sick! That was Mattie's last healthy birthday ever. Now looking back, perhaps the 101 degree fever was a sign, but in all honesty I would never have guessed my six year old would be diagnosed with cancer just three months after this picture was taken! 

Quote of the day: The worst pain ... isn't the pain you feel at the time, it's the pain you feel later on when there's nothing you can do about it. They say that time heals all wounds, but we never live long enough to test that theory ... ~ José Saramago


Each morning this week Peter and I have started the day by working together on Foundation items. We both have had think tank working group conference calls this week as well. In the past two days we have brainstormed a lot for May's upcoming walk. Since the format of the walk is different this year, in many ways it is like planning the event for the first time. Later in the day we drove to Cape Henlopen State Park and walked 3.5 miles on the Walking Dunes Trail and Salt Marsh Spur.


The sun was out but it was windy and blustery. Nonetheless, this is not the kind of trail one could easily walk during the summer months. It would be too hot, not to mention filled with ticks. This Marsh Trail was beautiful and went on for as far as the eye could see. This may look like a sandy trail, but it was actually crushed shells we were walking on!



From the trail photo above, we saw this Salt Marsh. It was very peaceful on the trail and we only passed about three people in total. In fact, Peter and I both commented that this whole trail LACKED wildlife of any kind. Even birds!








A close up of the marsh. Tomorrow would be Mattie's 11th birthday. It is my hope that you have enjoyed the last week of Mattie birthday photos I have posted on the blog. We remember each and every birthday, but it is hard to accept why such a vibrant force within our lives was taken away from us at age seven. This will be the fourth birthday of Mattie's we are acknowledging without having him physically present. It is a very confusing and at times upsetting prospect that in order to cherish our role as parents, we must live in the past. For the future holds NO Mattie!

 

2 comments:

Unknown said...

I hope Mattie is having an 11th birthday bash! Such a beautiful little man! Never understand the wrath of childhood cancer! Happy birthday buddy!

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you today on the eve of your sweet boys birthday. I hope your day is filled with great memories.