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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

April 6, 2015

Monday, April 6, 2015

Monday, April 6, 2015

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2004. This was during Mattie's second birthday party and the theme was trains. Mattie had an early love and affection for trains. All kinds of trains. Of course as he got older, electric trains became his focus and interest. Yet he never outgrew the adorable Tank Engine Thomas and it seems to me Mattie always had a toy car or train in his hands at all times.  


Quote of the day: Everyone can master a grief but he that has it. ~  William Shakespeare




On our way to the Shell Museum today we passed an Ibis on the side of the road. Ibises are quite common in Florida. They are nicknamed the "Florida pigeon." But they are long legged wading birds, who dig for food in the mud with their down curved bills.  






This is the Bailey-Matthews Shell Museum. For many years, Sanibel shell enthusiasts dreamed of establishing a museum dedicated entirely to shells and mollusks and their importance to the environment. Sanibel Island, long considered one of the world's best shell-collecting areas, would be the appropriate location.
The actual building fascinated me because it looked like the shape of a seashell from the outside. It almost prepared you for what you were about to see inside.

In early 1989, pioneer island residents Francis, Samuel, and John Bailey promised to deed over to the Museum eight acres of land situated in the wetlands south of Sanibel-Captiva Road. At the same time, approvals for the use of the site were granted by the Army Corps of Engineers and the Florida Department of Environmental Protection. In 1990, the Bailey brothers materialized their generous gift of eight acres of land in memory of their parents, Frank P. Bailey and Annie Mead Matthews. In their honor, the museum is named The Bailey-Matthews Shell Museum.

In January 1990, the Museum opened its capital campaign office, and actor Raymond Burr served as campaign chairman. In fact, there is a memorial garden dedicated to Mr. Burr at the entrance to the Museum. If you are a Perry Mason fan, then this whole notion captured a visitor's attention!













The museum displayed this simplistic, yet helpful map of the Island. Peter and I are staying all the way on the right. Not on Sanibel itself, but that little piece of yellow land that is connected to the causeway directly above the word, "lighthouse park beach." Each time we want to enter into Sanibel, we need to come over the causeway which is a $6 toll. There are no resorts per se on the Island, only small inns, homes to rent, and smaller properties. Since we have never been to Sanibel before, we weren't going to chance it with properties we were unfamiliar with. So instead we are driving across the causeway, but for a small Island, they have a MAJOR traffic problem. In any case, we visited the circle on the map today, right by where it says "Sanibel Island."


The shells were beautifully displayed in the museum, and before we started touring around, we actually saw a 30 minute film about Mollusks. We learned more about mollusks and particularly about two families of mollusks, Bivalues and Cephalopods. 







What truly caught our attention was this fact! While walking on the beach the other day, we saw tons of this stuff but didn't know what it was. They are Whelk (a type of cephalopod) shell casings, in essence where whelk shells lay their eggs to form MORE shells. Apparently thousands of baby shells can be hatched from these casing!!!

These shells are deep water species that are found over a mile down in the Gulf of Mexico. They are rare and hardly ever seen. They were brought up by shrimp trawl nets and traps. 






In some cultures shells were used as currency! This form of money was called Cowries. Check out the specifics in 1850: 

1 chicken could be purchased for 50 cowries for example!








Think about how much all these Cowries could have been worth centuries ago!





















A sailor's valentine is a form of shellcraft, a type of mostly antique souvenir, or sentimental gift made using large numbers of small seashells. These were originally made between 1830 and 1890, and they were designed to be brought home from a sailor's voyage at sea and given to the sailor's loved one or loved ones.[1] Sailor valentines are typically octagonal, glass fronted, hinged wooden boxes ranging from 8" to 15" in width, displaying intricate symmetrical designs composed entirely of small sea shells of various colors glued onto a backing. Patterns often feature a centerpiece such as a compass rose or a heart design, hence the name, and in some cases the small shells are used to spell out a sentimental message. Although the name seems to suggest that the sailors themselves made these objects, a large number of them originated in the island of Barbados, which was an important seaport during this period. Historians believe that the women on Barbados made the valentines using local shells, or in some cases using shells imported from Indonesia, and then the finished products were sold to the sailors.


The museum featured the beauty of shells from around the world, such as Italy and its use of cameo carvings into shells.



















Shells in Architecture














Later in the afternoon we went to outdoor shops called Periwinkle Walk 














The flowers and trees at this outdoor complex were glorious and I wish all our shopping areas in DC looked like this!











In the center of the shopping area was this lovely Banyan tree!














Of course no day would be complete without a lizard sighting! A message from Mattie!

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