A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



October 24, 2015

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Tonight's picture was taken on October 23, 2007. We took Mattie to a fall festival that day and he was doing one of his favorite activities there.... going down long slides on a piece of cloth. The irony is when Mattie first saw these slides two years before, he was scared of them. It took great coaxing and to go down them on Peter's lap for Mattie to appreciate the thrill. However, once Mattie got the gist of it, he loved it and wanted to do it himself. Despite his independence, Peter was always at the top of the hill and I was always at the bottom of the hill to keep a close eye on Mattie. As Mattie's parent, I tried to be proactive and think ahead of all the possible things that could wrong and to try to mitigate them. Childhood cancer however, was never on my list until it happened. 


Quote of the day: I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.Gilda Radner



Peter and I went to visit Mattie's memorial tree at his school today. Our goal was to take down the big yellow bow with sunflowers that we tied around the tree in honor of Mattie's 6th anniversary of his death and replace it with a Fall themed bow. As you can see this bow would not be complete without a spider attached to it. Mattie loved all sorts of creepy crawlers, so we know he would have appreciated this unique addition. 





At Mattie's upper school today, there was a National Junior Classical League Kick Off Certamen. Certamen is Latin for "competition," and it is a quiz bowl-style competition with classics-themed questions. The teams participated in our 5th Annual Candy Drive by donating candy today at their event. 





In this photo are two members of the St. Stephen's and St. Agnes School upper level Latin Team. The young lady with the red hair, Ann Bailey, is a long time volunteer for Mattie Miracle and as you can see helped us collect two big tubs of candy today! 

This is a new one for us! Typically the candy comes rolling in after Halloween, but this year it is occurring a week before! We love to see the energy and enthusiasm our community has for the Candy Drive. 

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