A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



May 2, 2026

Saturday, May, 2, 2026

Saturday, May 2, 2026

Tonight's picture was taken in May of 2004. Mattie was two years old and that day we walked down to the National Mall. We were right by the reflecting pool! Mattie was checking out the ducks! Spring time was the perfect season to see mama ducks and their ducklings.... a sighting that always caught Mattie's attention! Mattie was eager to point out that they looked just like him and me! I remember these moments in time like they were yesterday! Whenever I see a mother duck and her ducklings now, I can practically hear in my mind Mattie's excitement over this special sighting in nature. 



Quote of the day: Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. Nido Qubein


This morning as I was doing one task after the other (before I woke my dad up), I had the radio on. Those of you who have read the blog over the years, know I am a big country music fan. I like this genre because it usually talks about emotions and the human condition. Any case Megan Moroney's "Beautiful Things" came on the radio. If you haven't heard it, it is below. There is a verse in the song that says.....Nothin' 'bout you needs fixin', It ain't what you are, it's what he isn't! I am sure many people who hear this song, and have experienced heartache feel like this song was written for them. But this morning, I most definitely needed to hear this!


I had another challenging day! I am too tired to write about it. The highlight of my day is I baked three dozen pink and white cookies. When I was growing up in New York, the black and white cookie was very popular. It is a fluffy cake like cookie with a frosted glaze. Any case, I replicated the cookie tonight but with a  pink glaze!


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