A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



December 3, 2023

Sunday, December 3, 2023

Sunday, December 3, 2023

Tonight's picture was taken in November of 2004. Mattie was two and a half years old and this little table was a relatively new purchase back then. Mattie loved having a table designed for his height and I can't tell you all the fun and games we had in this small space. What Mattie showed me early on was that with a little creativity and imagination, anything was possible. 

Quote of the day: Here’s the thing: every loss is valid. And every loss is not the same. You can’t flatten the landscape of grief and say that everything is equal. It isn’t. ~ Megan Devine


Do not ask me how long I have been working on this year's Annual Drive mass mailer for the Foundation! It feels like I have been at it for weeks! Between designing it, getting it printed, ordering supplies, and then refining our database. Yesterday I finally was able to create mailing labels, print them out and then I started assembling. 

This kind of logistical issue is something that I excel at, in fact when I was a graduate assistant at the University, I took on many of these kinds of tasks. After a while, they become second nature to you. As long as you are organized, it can go smoothly. I have been working slowly but steadily and was determined to get all 400 letters in the mail tomorrow!

A year ago, Peter bought this folding table for us. It is very helpful for projects like these because if I were to use the table we eat on, I would have to shuffle things around constantly. With this table, I can just leave it as it is and get the work done. Notice who was in the background? Indie was by the window sleeping in her perch! She is never far, and as I am typing this, she is sitting practically in my lap.
All 400 envelopes are ready to go and now in the trunk of my car. I am thankful to Darryll, who works in the post office where Mattie Miracle's PO Box is located. He has helped me with getting enough holiday stamps, weighing the mailer to make sure one stamp would cover the cost of postage and then of course he gave me the bins to organize the letters. I have been working with Darryll for over 10 years and his kindness to me and the Foundation never go unnoticed. 




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