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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

October 20, 2008

Monday, October 20, 2008

Monday, October 20, 2008

Peter and I will try our best today to update you periodically! Thanks for being with us along this journey!

at 6:45am: Mattie was wheel chaired from his room to the pre-op area of the hospital. Linda, Peter, and I were with Mattie. Thankfully Linda was there to entertain and distract Mattie, so that Peter and I could answer questions posed by the nurses and the doctors. The pre-op area was a zoo. A real experience at 6 something in the morning. Peter and I had a conversation with the anestesiologist today regarding the PCA (post surgery pain control method) administration. The doctor told me that only Mattie could administer this medication to himself, and that Peter and I were prohibited to do this. I immediately began to take issue with this, because how could Mattie give himself medication if he is in so much pain and out of it? I basically said to her, that she couldn't be serious and that if she thinks other parents don't push this pain button for their children she is kidding herself. Then walked in Dr. Bob Henshaw who put the issue to bed with one word. The word was "yes," of course the parents could push the button. Below you will see a picture Linda took of us while we were in the pre-op area. Mattie was in great spirits! He is simply amazing!


at 8:00am: Peter got dressed up in his bunny suit and walked Mattie into the OR. They told us Mattie would need an hour of prep work, and would be heading into surgery at 9am.
at 11:28am: Linda just reported to us that Mattie is stable and is still in the process of having his bone removed. Meanwhile, Jenny (our art therapist) came up to Mattie's room, and we made some praying cranes out of origami. A wonderful distraction!
at 1:00pm: We got a call from Emily, our surgical liaison. She let us know that the tumor is out, the margins look good (the area between the diseased and non-diseased tissue), and the reconstruction is beginning. Mattie has lost some blood, but is stable.
at 2:00pm: Dr. Jeff Toretsky called me on my cell phone to let me know that he was in the surgery room observing Mattie's operation and that things were looking good. He talked to me about the margins and the size of the repiphysis and answered other questions I had. To my knowledge the shoulder portion of the reconstruction is done, and Bob is working on the elbow portion of the humerus.
at 2:46pm: A group just came up to get Mattie's bed, so things are progressing and he will come up in his own bed. Our nurse, Brenna is going to check on Mattie's status to see when we can meet him in the PACU. The surgery is still taking place, and probably will for at least another hour.
at 3:10pm: Dr. Bob Henshaw came to our room. The surgery is complete and Mattie is getting wrapped up and put into a sling. Bob was happy with the way the surgery went. He said there were no surprises. Mattie did have to get his axial nerve and the cap of the shoulder joint (so the prosthesis is now connected to the scapula) removed though, but in the grand scheme of things, it appears that Bob was able to remove all of the tumor. Bob will check on Mattie tomorrow, and plans for Mattie to be on the perineural (like an epidural) pain management system this entire week. We are awaiting Mattie's arrival or our trip down to the PACU. Overall, Bob was happy, and if Bob is happy so are we.
at 4:00pm: We were just visited by Debbi (our sedation nurse, aka our angel), Denise (our social worker), Catherine (our case manager), and Kathy (nurse practitioner). Kathy went down to the PACU to visit Mattie, and just called. Mattie is out of surgery, wrapped up, and coming out of sedation. He was alittle agitated, so they gave him some more medication. I spoke to Bob as well, who confirmed Mattie's status. Mattie has been the buzz of the hospital today, and we are awaiting his arrival. The debate about the PCA (pain management) administration continues. At the moment, they are now making the nurses responsible for the administration. We shall see how this works out. In the midst of all of this, we have had two visits from Jey. Jey has become our friend. He is a CT tech, and has gotten to know Mattie well. Jey checks with us each day we are in the hospital. Jey exemplifies what quality care is all about. Mattie has quite a following here!
Stay tuned as more details unfold.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Vicki, Good for you to advocate - talk about altered Mental Status in a post operative "loopy" state -I was on Diluadid post Gastric Bypass and didn't want too much! I'm glad you have a surgeon so in tune with you! Please know that Mattie, Peter and you are in my mom's and my prayers, as well as the Prayer Tree of Church of the Apostles, Fairfax, is praying for dear Mattie! Since I stumbled on the Blog page on Thursday evening, I have read your page every day, crying at times, and the "park bench" talk just was so tender, but yet so real! He is going to come through this, with flying colors! He's got your Italian blood in you! He speaks his mind when he wants! Love to you, Mary Ann

Anonymous said...

I was just checking on Mattie's surgery and a couple of my students just saw Mattie's picture and said he is really cute.
Karen

Phantom said...

Hi Mattie,

Congratulations for the successful surgery. Get well soon.

Abha & Rohit

Anonymous said...

We continue to pray for Mattie's rapid recovery from surgery.
Charlie, Tom, Brian Boru and Jenny