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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

August 15, 2024

Thursday, August 15, 2024

Thursday, August 15, 2024

Tonight's picture was taken in August of 2005. Mattie was three years old and that week, he was in Los Angeles visiting my parents. Mattie absolutely loved visiting the La Brea Tar Pits and Museum. The beauty of these pits is that they are still conducting archeological digs, which Mattie found fascinating to observe! I remember these moments in time, and I did not even realize how lucky I was to be living a normal life.  


Quote of the day: You will never know the pain until you look into the eyes of someone you love, and they look away. ~ Unknown


In honor of my parent's 64th anniversary, I took them out for lunch in Great Falls, VA. I have been dining at this restaurant for years. In fact, every birthday and anniversary, Peter and I celebrated at this special restaurant. The setting is so beautiful to me, and even though I associate it with Peter, it hasn't stopped me from returning. What I do know is the Peter I knew and loved for 35 years, is and will always be a part of me. He may have changed, but I know the reality of our life together. I couldn't help but look around the restaurant and see so many happy men with their significant others. Again, I don't understand how this abandonment has happened to me, as I never saw it coming. 

My parents have known each other for 71 years! It is quite remarkable and I know my mom enjoyed the outing. My dad is another story. He can eat something and two minutes later, he has NO memory of it! Case in point, on Tuesday night, as I was cleaning up the dinner dishes, he asked me..... would it be easier if we went out of dinner? Mind you he just ate, he was still sitting at the table, and I was actively cleaning up dishes! Sometimes, I ask myself.... is it worth taking him out to eat? As long as I can, I will, but it is a feat, and even with Imodium on board, I took him to the bathroom twice, and once he needed to be completely changed. 

My mom snapped this photo of me today.























Some of the beauty that surrounded us at lunch. 
Plants, trees, and gardens all around!
To me this place is just a magical setting, and is so different from the fast paced, loud, and modern restaurants in our area. 
The outdoor area under a tent. Because of my dad's reaction to bug bites, I put OFF all over him today. 











The restaurant has its own gardens. This amuse-bouche, was tomato and pepper (fresh from the garden!) bisque. It was delicious! 


















This appetizer was a trio of Salmon. 


















A tomato salad from the garden. 














Halibut!














We had four desserts on the table:

  • a raspberry souffle
  • ice cream in a cookie bowl (for my dad)
  • apple tart with home made ice cream
and

They brought out this complimentary strawberry cake to celebrate my parent's anniversary. 







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