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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

August 7, 2013

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Tonight's picture was taken in August of 2008. Back then the Hospital did not have a child life playroom. So if Mattie wanted to play outside of his room, he did that in the hallways. Therefore when the child life playroom opened up in the Fall of 2008, it was a blessing for Mattie! As you can see here, Mattie designed a mask for himself out of model magic. He colored and decorated it and naturally tried it on. This mask remains in our kitchen today.









Fun Facts of the Day about Gibraltar: (1) Once an important base for the British Armed Forces, it now plays host to the Royal Navy. (2) Gibraltar consists of a long limestone mountain, which has as may as 140 caves. (3) Gibraltar and the Moroccan mountain of Jbel Musa are known as ‘The Pillars of Hercules.’ This is because it is believed that Hercules used them as his hand grips, when he decided to pull Africa and Spain apart. (4) The evidence of human habitation in Gibraltar has been traced to as far back as Neanderthal man. (5) The people of Gibraltar are British citizens and most of them want to stay that way.


Gibraltar is a peninsula. Which means it is surrounded by water on three sides and is connected to land on the fourth side. In this particular case, Gibraltar is connected to the Country of Spain. Yet Gibraltar is NOT a part of Spain, despite the fact that Spain would like to claim this very valuable port territory as its own. In fact there have been conflicts over the ownership of Gibraltar for centuries and many countries have fought to occupy it. Currently, Gibraltar is a British dependency and has been since 1704, although an elected House of Assembly controls most domestic affairs.

Although it is less than three square miles in area, the Rock of Gibraltar has become a symbol of durability and permanence. With its strategic location at the western entrance of the Mediterranean, “the rock” offers great value as a military strong point. There is little wonder why it has been such a great source of contention over the centuries. The Gibraltarians refer to their territory as “the rock.” Literally when you look at this peninsula, it is ALL rock. In fact, our guide told us that Gibraltar has more tunnel roads cutting inside the mountains than it has roads outside and around the mountains. This was of course designed very strategically, so those on the Peninsula could protect and defend themselves from outsiders who wanted to attack and claim their land.

When I looked at Gibraltar from our Ship, I have to admit it looked like any seaside community. You know the type, with towns, villages and developments surrounding large mountains. However, while driving around the Peninsula it became instantly clear that this area is not really a seaside community at all. But an area with a vital port, that connects the Atlantic Ocean to the Mediterranean Sea. In addition, I feel that this British “Rock” has many similarities to our American “Rock” in San Francisco. Every time our guide used the terminology, “the rock,” I couldn’t help but think of Alcatraz in San Francisco. It too has the nickname, “the rock.” Both (Gibraltar and Alcatraz) are solid fortifications that were used for protection.

This statue was to memorialize the mass exodus of children and women from the Peninsula during World War II. The “Evacuation of the Gibraltarians,” from my perspective was a very powerful visual statement. The statue captures the reunion between a woman and her husband. In tow, the woman had her child with her, a child who most likely left the Peninsula when he was a baby. The statue captures a reunion 10 to 15 years later and upon their return, the dad isn’t greeted with open arms from his son. But instead his son has his arm extended forward, pushing his father away. This child did not grow up in the presence of his father and therefore though this man is biologically his father, because of the circumstances of War, the child viewed this man as a stranger. This statue captures the complexities of war and the impact that WWII had not only on individuals but on the entire family system.

In 1704, during the War of the Spanish Succession, a strong British naval force under Admiral Rooke captured the town and the fortress. The Rock has remained in the British hands ever since, in spite of many Spanish and French attempts to recapture it. This is a photo of the border check point into Spain. Our guide told us there is GREAT unrest between Gibraltar and Spain. Spain would like to charge every Gibraltarian over $50 to enter Spain and also a tax to use the waters around Gibraltar. Many Spaniards are employed in Gibraltar. It is easy for people of Spain to come in and out of Gibraltar, but it isn't as easy for a Gibraltarain to enter back into the peninsula from Spain. Gibraltarians can be detained for hours.

This photo captures a first for me!!! We drove on an airport runway! Why? Because the run way serves as a road when planes aren’t taking off or landing in Gibraltar. Amazing, no!??? Our guide, Eugene, told us that five flights land in Gibraltar daily!




The ancient Greeks called the two sides of the Straits the Pillars of Hercules. In the year 711, a Moorish army led by Tariq ibn Zeyad crossed over from North Africa and began the conquest of Spain for Islam. The name “Gibraltar” is derived from “Gebel-Tarik,” which means Tariq’s rock. He built a strong fortification to secure his communications with Morocco. The ruins of the Moor’s Castle illustrated in this photo represent part of this construction.

The port area and residential areas are new additions to the Peninsula. They were created by land fill. I am referring to all the homes, apartments, and high rise buildings you see in this photo! These were built on land fill.






As my faithful readers know, I LOVE lighthouses. This red and white cutie, Europa Point Lighthouse, is still in operation today. It is the only British lighthouse off the mainland that is still in operation today!











“The Rock” itself is a natural fortress 1,396 feet high, with a sheer vertical face to the east. Today the town of Gibraltar has about 30,000 inhabitants.






It is a rather amazing concept that depending upon where you are standing on the Peninsula, you are seeing different countries! This is a photo of Spain from “the Rock.”






Europe is only eight miles from Africa at this point. This photo illustrates that we were standing in Europe and across the way, we were viewing Africa. A totally different continent!






A rather shocking sighting on Gibraltar is the wild Barbary Monkeys that roam the Peninsula. These monkeys have been present for centuries! They are VERY comfortable around people and cars, as you can see! However, as our guide reminded us, these are WILD animals and have been known to bite, scratch, and seriously injure humans. I couldn’t get over people who went up to these monkeys today and tried to touch them or fed them. All VERY bad ideas accordingly to our tour guide. Our guide told us what happened to a recent tourist who extended her arm to one of these monkeys. This monkey literally tore open her arm, blood was pooling everywhere, and she had to be rushed to the hospital for emergency surgery. This is ALL I needed to hear, I got out of the bus once to experience these monkeys, but I wouldn’t leave the bus a second time. I wasn’t alone in this feeling!

Peter snapped a photo of me with my parents today. We toured St. Michael’s Caves. Fortunately I have experienced both Howe’s Cavern and Luray Cavern in the United States. So I understood what I was viewing. Mattie loved Luray Cavern and found such natural formations fascinating and intriguing. St. Michael’s Caves are like our U.S. caves which reveal beautiful stalagmites and stalactites.

As you can see, some of the passageways we walked through were tight and narrow and others led to huge open and cavernous spaces!








Isn’t this an amazing amphitheater? The acoustics in this natural space are incredible. We were told that concerts are performed in this space even today!






Stalagmites are limestone deposits that accumulate from the ground up and Stalactites are limestone deposits that form from the ceiling and drip downward. As water comes through the ground, it picks up the calcium carbonate in the limestone, and when it reaches the cave it is exposed to oxygen. This causes the calcium carbonate to precipitate out of the water and begin to form such glorious deposits. Deposits that took thousands of YEARS to form.

Close up of the stalactites!
















Gibraltar is home of the Barbary Apes. These are tail less monkeys which are native to this Peninsula, but not to the rest of the Spanish mainland. These monkeys freely walk the streets with the people and the buses!






Legend has it that Britain will retain the Rock (Gibraltar) as long as the Apes live here. At one point during War II, they seemed to be dying out. Fearful of poor morale at a critical time, Winston Churchill gave the legend a bit of help by bringing in ape-reinforcements from North Africa in 1944. Today they number about 60. I was thrilled to be on the bus as we passed the ape den! These monkeys were jumping all over the bus roof, were hanging from the windows, and really wanted ON the bus!





I entitle this photo, “the contemplative ape!” I just love his face and eyes. In so many ways, we weren’t only observing these apes today. They were observing us! Bringing a plastic bag of any kind to the area where the apes live is a HUGE mistake. We saw people carrying such bags get attacked. The bags were taken away by these apes, broken into, and any food within the bags were taken and eaten!

These monkeys roam FREELY! There are NO fences, gates, or people to protect you from these monkeys. Therefore you have to use common sense and not provoke these creatures in any way, especially moms carrying babies. They were SUPER protective of their young. If Mattie saw this threesome today, he would have said….. “this is a baby with his mom and dad. Just like me!”

The apes know that the tour guides will feed them, which is why they jump on the buses that pass by. These monkeys are relentless! Our guide had dried prunes and as soon as the monkeys saw the fact that he had this fruit, they went wild. As you can see, one monkey put his arm into the bus to grab the prune and eat it.



My last photo for tonight is that of a “Gibraltar Puss.” We have had many cat sightings on our trip! This cutie looked under nourished to me and if I could I would have taken him home.


We are now back at sea, steaming to Southampton, England. It will take us two straight days to return to the port of Southampton! We fly home on Saturday afternoon. We had no cell phone coverage today in Gibraltar and of course we not get cell phone coverage while at sea. So this is three days without my Blackberry. That alone is a feat in and of itself. Then factor into it that as soon as we dock, I then have to board a plane and fly home over water. I am not the traveler I once was. Far more makes me anxious and uneasy since Mattie’s death. Also I have found that this 14 day cruise has exhausted me beyond belief. The pace was very aggressive and I suppose unlike others who know how to sit still and relax in a lounge chair, I am constantly doing something. The Ship has a daily schedule of activities and literally if you try to keep a schedule while also doing aggressive tours, it is tiring. I am living proof! My joke is I need to return home just to sleep. It is my hope that I have captured our stops adequately enough to give you a feeling for what we have done in these past two weeks. I appreciate you reading Mattie’s blog and the next time you will hear from me, will be from Washington, DC. Peter will be doing the remaining blogs during our sea days. 

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