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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

December 14, 2022

Wednesday, December 14, 2022

Wednesday, December 14, 2022

Tonight's picture was taken in December of 2002. Mattie was 8 months old and getting ready to celebrate his first Christmas. Back then I was adjusting to the change within our home, as baby items had a way of filling up a room quickly. Despite the research, we did buy Mattie an activity walker. I did this because Mattie wanted desperately to move independently. He did not like crawling and seemed to have the leg strength to hold himself up and loved the fact that with this little wheeled vehicle he could follow me around.


Quote of the day: Even though people experiencing dementia become unable to recount what has just happened, they still go through the experience—even without recall. ~ Judy Cornish


I started the day with an attitude adjustment. As my dad was going to the memory care center, I decided to make lunch arrangements for me and my mom at the Neiman Marcus Café. Typically I am not a Neiman Marcus shopper, but I do like their café. It is a special and more intimate experience. 

Thank goodness for calendar reminders. I completely forgot that I had an interview with the director of volunteering at Georgetown Hospital at 11am. I applied to become an official volunteer, because it is the only way I can get into the Hospital and push our Snack and Item Cart. I had the opportunity to introduce our story and Mattie Miracle to a new person today. It was a video call, so the interviewer could see my office. She was taken aback by it, in a positive way! She thought it was so beautiful and creative, in fact she asked me if it was a virtual back drop! NOPE! My backdrop is all of Mattie's creations. My whole office is inspired by Mattie and I chose this purposefully to honor his memory but also as a visual reminder of why I do what I do!

I think going out to lunch was helpful for me and my mom. I get very bogged down in intense caregiving and when I can go out and eat without worrying about choking and bathroom issues, it is more freeing. I can be more myself, which I worry is slowly getting lost by the wayside. I think caregiving does strip away one's identity and unfortunately I already experienced this crisis once before. 




After lunch, we walked through the department featuring Christmas items. We came across this beautiful Christmas skirt. Want to guess how much it is????

Try $1,000! Beautiful but we quickly moved along and had a good chuckle. The tree skirt motivated us to leave and instead we went to CVS and I picked up a few more ornaments for Mattie's memorial tree, which we plan on visiting this weekend. 

When I got home, Sunny was waiting for me in the driveway. He misses my attention. So I went inside, dropped everything, and got my sneakers on to walk Sunny. We walked for over an hour through the woods and it was a peaceful experience. 


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