A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



April 16, 2019

Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Tuesday, April 16, 2019 - Mattie died 499 weeks ago today. 

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2006. I took Mattie to the Reston Zoo and he was interested in going on a pony ride by himself. Mattie was a cautious fellow, and had a healthy level of respect for things larger than himself. Most of Mattie's previous pony rides were with Peter by his side. But by age four, Mattie felt confident enough to try it on his own. Don't you just love the big smile?!


Quote of the day: If people knew how hard I worked to get my mastery, it wouldn't seem so wonderful after all. ~ Michelangelo


My day started bright and early as I had to drive Sunny to Chantilly, VA for his grooming. We try to get Sunny groomed every month. It helps manage his smell and double coat of fur. I have followed Sunny's groomer all over town, because at one time she worked in Alexandria, and was geographically much closer to me. But now it takes 40 minutes of driving each way to get to her. However, she appreciates Sunny and does a great job with him, so to me it is worth the drive.  

No matter where I am, I have the Mattie Miracle Walk on the mind. Pulling off the Walk each year is a feat and it is also stressful. It's stressful because the Walk is our largest fundraiser of the year. Therefore, if we don't meet our targeted goal, it is hard for us to run our programs.  It is ironic, when I first started with the Foundation in 2009, I was timid about asking people for money. Now, it is second nature for me, especially since I am passionate about why we need the funds..... to support our child life specialist, to stock our snack and item carts, to fund our psychosocial research grants, and the list goes on!


While working today, I saw an email come in about Jay Leno performing at the Kennedy Center next week. I literally stopped what I was doing to purchase tickets! I find without forced breaks, I will always be working and I truly need a change of pace throughout these long Walk preparation weeks! Needless to say, I am happy to report that we have 21 corporate Walk sponsors this year and in total our sponsors have generated over $45,000 toward our $100,000 fundraising goal.  

Come check out our Walk Website and join us as we celebrate our 10th Anniversary on May 19th: www.mmcfwalk.com

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