A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



June 29, 2022

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

Tonight's picture was taken in June of 2006. Mattie was four years old and like so many weekends, that day we went to Roosevelt Island. It was a place Mattie absolutely loved and it was just about five minutes by car from our home. The Island was a special place to walk in EVERY season. I miss those walks and whenever we were there after Mattie died, it felt like we were reconnecting with him. It is a special piece of nature for us, that as a family stimulated us when Mattie was well, it provided us joy when Mattie was undergoing cancer treatment, and it provided comfort and peace after Mattie died. How can one place serve all these roles? I don't know, but it did!


Quote of the day: Dementia does not rob someone of their dignity. It’s our reaction to them that does. ~ Teepa Snow



Sunny was activated last night. He wanted to go outside, especially in the front of the house. No surprise, look who was trotting around? Mr. Fox!








Peter took Sunny to the vet by 7am. Sunny needed another urine culture, as his last sample got lost in transit. Which I was not happy about. Poor Sunny thought he was going on an adventure. By the time he got to the vet, he was shaking from fear. Sunny is now down to 60 pounds. So he has lost 10 pounds so far on chemo. 





My dad went to the memory center today. While there, I called the outpatient rehab clinic at the hospital we go to. I received scripts from my dad's rehab doctor, and arranged for all three therapies. The woman on the phone was throwing dates at me so quickly, I was scribbling them down and trying to make sense out of them. All I know is my summer is completely filled with balancing my dad's needs. The schedule is hard enough, but now add on a thirty minute drive each way, twice a week, on top of my mom's PT sessions (twice a week) and I am done! 

Just so you know, I also have a cat buddy, Miss Indie! A loving and loyal soul. 



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