Proud of my work -- 16 Years of Service

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

July 15, 2015

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2007. As you can see we had a lot going on, on our deck. We had Patches, our cat sitting on top of Mattie's sand box. We had a large inflatable pool taking up half the deck, and on the table if you notice carefully are two special wine goblets. These goblets belongs to my paternal grandparents. They were used during their wedding to make a celebratory toast. After that point, my grandparents used them on special occasions, such as anniversaries. After they died, my uncle gave Peter and I these goblets. Since we had them out on the table, I know this meant we were toasting our anniversary, and Mattie came to give me a big hug for the occasion! 


Quote of the day: Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. Lao Tzu



Today Peter and I celebrated our 20th Wedding Anniversary. Peter posted the following photos on his facebook page and many people have commented and shared their thoughts with us throughout the day. 

Yesterday, I pulled out our wedding album. I haven't done this in at least a decade. I then reached for my camera and snapped photos of the photos, since this was before the age of electronic photographs.  






What you probably can't tell here is that on July 15, 1995, the weather was INCREDIBLY hot and humid. The temperatures were over 100 degrees. How Peter and I managed in a tuxedo and wedding dress, is beyond me. But it is the beauty of youth and excitement. 














A photo with my parents! 




A photo with Peter's parents!













Peter with our bridesmaids. From left to right are Jen, Karen (my maid of honor), Colleen, and Christina. 

Karen and I met in 6th grade and we are lifetime friends. Christina and I met in college, and Jen, Colleen, and I met in graduate school in Boston. 




Karen sent me a photo of our wedding favor (the rose tea cup) and our rehearsal dinner favor (the wedding bell) today! Like me, she is a sentimentalist! 












Though I haven't been a big fan of Facebook, I have learned to appreciate connecting with people directly this way. I had delightful instant messenger chats with several people today, one being my cousin who lives in Connecticut. She went to Italy recently and visited with family. She sent me several photos today in honor of our anniversary. One was this wedding
photo of my paternal grandparents. They too were married on July 15th! If they were alive today, they would have celebrated their 81st anniversary. 

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