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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

February 8, 2019

Thursday, February 7, 2019

Thursday, February 7, 2019

Tonight's picture was taken in February of 2009. I absolutely love this photo that I took during the middle of a Mattie physical therapy session. Mattie was far more likely to participate in physical therapy if he had company and an entourage. In front of Mattie was his physical therapist, Anna. Behind him were Jessie (one of his art therapists) and Linda (his child life specialist). To me, this photo truly illustrates the beauty of psychosocial support. Because Mattie's therapists understood that they had to get to know the whole child and meet his social and psychological needs in order for him to comply with their treatment.  

Quote of the day: I tell you, in this world being a little crazy helps to keep you sane. ~ Zsa Zsa Gabor


We spent some time at the house today. As you can see, every room is sealed off with plastic. I feel better about the progress being made and the fact that whatever mold was in the area was removed. In addition, I am seeing that walls and the floor are drying. Of course, even with that said, a lot needs to be reconstructed. As walls have been torn apart, along with an entire floor. 
So the culprit that caused this leak is the window near the ladder. Literally rain flooded in through this window, which caused flooding in the walls, that seeped into the floor. As you can see, a good portion of the wooden floor has been removed!
















This is the state of the kitchen! Today, I decided to shut off the HVAC system, to prevent the smell and dust from traveling around the house. I also opened many of the windows in the house, with the hopes of getting fresh air throughout the house. After a few hours, I could feel a difference. More tomorrow!



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