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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

May 17, 2011

Monday, May 16, 2011

Monday, May 16, 2011

Tonight's picture was taken in September of 2007 on the Potomac River. Peter and Mattie were always having weekend adventures together, and as you can see Mattie loved being on the water. Though they usually went without me, on this particular occasion I was asked to come along on their fishing excursion and Mattie gave me several pointers about how to hold a fishing pole and what to do if I caught a fish.

Quote of the day: You incorporate the loss into the inner landscape of who you are. ~ unknown

Since I never left the house on Sunday, I made up for it today. I met up with one of the teachers from Mattie's preschool. Though Mattie never experienced Lois as a teacher, our paths have crossed over the years, and when we met each other in the grocery store last week, we decided to schedule a time to actually get to know each other better. Despite all the rain Washington, DC is getting, this morning, the weather was very pleasant. Lois and I chatted for quite some time, while walking. We walked over 5 miles together. Funny how fast time can go by while talking. It is a wonderful way to exercise and connect with someone. I am happy Lois suggested we get together because we had a very stimulating dialogue and discussed the impact of a loss on one's life and how this loss can transform you in a way.

After this lovely walk, I focused on Walk items for the rest of the day. I met up with Peter for lunch and thankfully we took separate cars. As I was leaving to continue on with my chores, I quickly deduced that I couldn't start my car. So I called Peter and had him come back and use his jumper cables to start my car. Naturally once he did that, we brought the car in. But it is ironic that this would happen today, and I am very grateful that Peter was back in town and also in close proximity to easily help.

I will spare you the rest of the details of my day, but suffice it to say, the Foundation Walk's preregistration numbers are looking good and we are well on our way to meeting our financial goal of $20,000. We very much appreciate the contributions which are coming in, and your generosity and compassion for helping children and their families with cancer. You are helping us make a difference!

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