Mattie Miracle 15th Anniversary Video

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

July 31, 2015

Friday, July 31, 2015

Friday, July 31, 2015

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2003. Mattie was 15 months old and this was his first trip to the beach. What makes me laugh about this photo was the simple fact that we were right on the beach, but Mattie preferred playing with the hose and being on the deck. Mattie loved spraying down the deck, the chairs, and himself. That brought him great fun and laughter. Of course back then my thinking was we could have stayed home and he could have done the same thing! But I learned over time to get passed that thinking and to see that we had to expose Mattie to the beach and to new things slowly. Acceptance of things had to be on his terms always, not on ours. 


Quote of the day: Do you want to know who you are? Don't ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you. Thomas Jefferson


Today was day 3 of the IPOS/APOS World Psycho-Oncology Congress. This morning's Plenary session was moderated by Cokie Roberts. I have met Ms. Roberts once before at the George Washington University. She came to moderate a panel for a professional women's group I was a member of back then. She is a very warm, friendly, and generous person with her time. She had no problem at all with our request for a photo, or the fact that we were going to post this photo on Facebook or Twitter. 

Ms. Roberts moderated a panel discussion on palliative care this morning that featured five medical doctors. Two of whom were from Europe and two were from the United States. The consistent message from both countries was that palliative care is very misunderstood, by both patients and practitioners. When one hears the term palliative care, what do you think of? The number one answer is most likely..... death! You think of end of life care. However, that isn't what palliative care is at all. 

Palliative care is specialized medical care for people with serious illnesses. It focuses on providing patients with relief from the symptoms (pain, restlessness, sleeping and breathing difficulties) and stress of a serious illness. The goal is to improve quality of life for both the patient and the family. Ideally palliative care is provided early on and integrated throughout one's care. It has nothing to do with having a terminal condition. 

It was a fascinating discussion and well moderated by Ms. Roberts. It was as if she knew the panelists all her life, and yet she just met them minutes before the presentation started. So she clearly has a gift for connecting with people, listening, and synthesizing information. 


Today was an historic day for the Foundation. Peter and I, along with our dream team of psycho-oncologists presented the National Psychosocial Standards of Care to an audience of around 150 people. This initiative began in 2012 with a Symposium on Capitol Hill. For a full history of the Project, please visit:  http://www.mattiemiracle.com/#!standards-of-care/c22ij


Thanks to the help of our board member and probono public policy guru, Brett Thompson, a wonderful press release went out today on this momentous occasion. The quotes from Congressman Michael McCaul (R-TX), Congressman Chris Van Hollen (D-MD), and Congresswoman Jackie Speier (D-CA) are very meaningful and deeply appreciated by the Foundation. 

http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/mattie-miracle-cancer-foundation-announces-completion-of-psychosocial-standards-of-care-for-children-with-cancer-300121766.html

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