A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



March 17, 2016

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Thursday, March 17, 2016


Tonight's picture was taken on March 17, 2009. To me Mattie was the ultimate shamrock! We never knew this would be our last St. Patrick's Day with Mattie. That day, Mattie was headed to the outpatient clinic. Before heading there, he donned on all his clover gear that his friends gave him to celebrate the day! I remember taking this photo like it were yesterday!









Quote of the day: We’ve been wrong about what our job is in medicine. We think our job is to ensure health and survival. But really it is larger than that. It is to enable well-being.  ~ Atul Gawande, Being Mortal: Illness, Medicine and What Matters in the End


A few weeks ago, Peter and I were approached by the American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO). ASCO is the voice of the world’s cancer physicians. ASCO’s patient information website (Cancer.Net) brings the expertise and resources of ASCO to people living with cancer and those who care for and care about them. ASCO wanted up to do a Podcast for their website! I honestly did not know what a podcast was, but I got up to speed quickly. It is an interview, without an actual interviewer or moderator. So in essence you have to moderate and dialogue by yourself. In our case, we had crafted how we wanted the 20 minute interview to go, and basically Peter served not only as a speaker but our moderator! 

We want to thank Cancer.Net for the opportunity to discuss the importance of psychosocial care as an integral part of comprehensive cancer care. Within the Podcast we share personal insights we gained from Mattie's cancer journey and why these experiences led to our vision to develop and implement evidence based Psychosocial Standards of Care. Hope you find the link below of value!


When Medicine isn't Everything:

http://www.cancer.net/blog/2016-03/when-medicine-isnt-everything

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