A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



January 17, 2019

Thursday, January 17, 2019

Thursday, January 17, 2019

Tonight's picture was taken in January of 2009. Mattie was home from the hospital and got a visit from our resident Jack Russell Terrier, JJ. JJ and Mattie were buddies and practically grew up together. Though it may look like Mattie was agile and could get around. He couldn't. Mattie couldn't walk, but found a way to move around if he was sitting on the floor. Of course, because Mattie couldn't really move and had tubes coming out his chest, he was anxious about being around JJ, who had a lot of energy. Mattie never felt this way before cancer. 


Quote of the day: Few childhood cancers are attributed to genetics or environmental factors. ~ Dr. Janine Vetsch

I came across an article today, entitled, What is to blame for childhood cancer? We often misunderstand the reality. The title alone caught my attention, because I know ALL TOO WELL that families of children with cancer know the reality and the non-cancer community believes the myths. Perhaps they believe the myths because it quells their fears and placates them into thinking.... this can't happen to my family. 

In any case, the study in question was conducted in South Wales. Dr. Vetsch decided to investigate the perceptions on the causes of childhood cancer with two different groups. One group was comprised of families who had a child diagnosed with cancer and the other group did not have a child diagnosed with cancer. 

She investigated the beliefs of more than 600 participants – parents and childhood cancer survivors – about the causes of childhood cancer, and compared them with beliefs of 510 members of the general population.
She found that more than seven out of 10 childhood cancer survivors and survivors' parents believed that chance or bad luck caused the child's cancer, so most parents and survivors seem to understand that there is nothing they could have done to prevent the cancer.

Members of the general community, that is, without a child with cancer, more frequently endorsed that genetics (75.3%) and environmental factors (65.3%) played a major role in childhood cancer, and less often attributed bad luck/chance to the diagnosis. These sorts of views can lead to stigma, and I can attest to hurtful comments that were directed to Peter and me. I absolutely agree with this researcher, that it is really important to increase community knowledge of childhood cancer causes in general, because perpetuating this myth serves no purpose, other than it being a misguided attempt at self protection for the well community.  

What is to blame for childhood cancer? We often misunderstand the reality:


https://medicalxpress.com/news/2019-01-blame-childhood-cancer-reality.html

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