A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



November 4, 2023

Saturday, November 4, 2023

Saturday, November 4, 2023

Tonight's picture was taken in October of 2008. I remember this moment in time like it were yesterday. It was the weekend before Mattie's first limb salvaging surgery. We were all on the edge, dealing with intense anxiety, and fear. That day, we took a local road trip to the Inner Harbor of Baltimore. We walked around, toured a train museum, and had lunch by the water. As you can see, Mattie was holding a Lego structure in his right hand. Mattie never walked empty handed, it was one of his tell tale signs!


Quote of the day: Everyone must leave something behind when he dies, my grandfather said. A child or a book or a painting or a house or a wall built or a pair of shoes made. Or a garden planted. Something your hand touches some way so your soul has somewhere to go when you die, and when people look at that tree or that flower you planted, you’re there.Ray Bradbury


I was sent three photos today from Chicago. An International Research Sibling Summit was taking place and though we were not there.... look what was being featured! 

On this slide, you will see a photo of Mattie and a picture of us with our research team back in 2012 at our Psychosocial Symposium on Capitol Hill. From that Symposium, we charged the research community to develop evidence based Standards of Care. Presenting in this photo is Dr. Lori Wiener. I had the good fortune to meet Lori in 2011, and from there our collaboration began. It is thanks to Lori's leadership that the Standards were developed and published. Lori is one of the gifts Mattie left behind for us. Whenever I wonder what impact does Mattie Miracle have on cancer care, I get photos like this to remind me. It is indeed significant. We learned many lessons from Mattie and these lessons are now guiding the way cancer care is being delivered. 

The researcher presenting here is Kristin Long. She is based out of Boston University and she is one of the first researchers we awarded a grant! You maybe able to see Mattie Miracle's logo on the screen, as she is giving us credit for being a funder of her research. 
Mattie Miracle awarded more than one grant to Boston University and through this group's research they have developed a timeline of when supportive services should be offered to siblings of children with cancer. 

To read more about their timeline, go to:

https://childfam.wixsite.com/siblingblueprint/copy-of-timeline-for-services

I find fun stories of the day, help to change my mood and outlook. Have you heard the story about Kevin Bacon? NOT the actor, but the 200 pound pig who escaped his family's farm! Thanks to a sticky bun and Benadryl, the Kevin was returned home! Check out the story: Missing pig named Kevin Bacon finally found after shout-out from actor Kevin Bacon

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