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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

February 1, 2016

Monday, February 1, 2016

Monday, February 1, 2016

Tonight's picture was taken on February 4, 2016. This was a typical physical therapy scene with Mattie. Just like him, it wasn't boring. In order to inspire Mattie to participate in physical therapy, it took a team of us to motivate him. Walking even a couple of steps was exhausting and painful. After all, Mattie wasn't just rehabilitating, he was recovering from limb salvaging surgery (in which three limbs were replaced with prosthetics) and Mattie was still undergoing chemotherapy. As you can see, Mattie had Anna (his physical therapist) pushing his IV pole, and behind him were Jessie (one of Mattie's art therapists) and Linda (Mattie's child life specialist). Notice all the colorful plastic cones attached by a string to Mattie's walker. All designed by Mattie!


Quote of the day: Closed eyes, heart not beating, but a living love. ~ Avis Corea


Today was a warmer day, but grey, rainy, and rather depressing. The highlight of my day was meeting my friend Dawnee for lunch. We were celebrating her birthday, which occurred last week during the blizzard.

Dawnee is another friend I made thanks to Mattie. In 2004, we submitted a preschool application to the Resurrection Children's Center. Dawnee was the assistant director of the school at the time and that was the first time we met one another. Then life got busy and complicated with Mattie's illness and we lost track of one another. Fast forward to 2013, I was planning a birthday party for another friend and I invited Dawnee to the party. That birthday lunch reconnected us.

Dawnee introduced me to this restaurant in Falls Church, VA and Peter actually took me to it for my birthday last year. I enjoyed it so much that I decided this would be the perfect spot for today. No matter what the weather is outside, this restaurant has floor to ceiling windows which seem to make even a grey day brighter!   

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