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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

July 15, 2022

Friday, July 15, 2022

Friday, July 15, 2022

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2007, on our wedding anniversary to be specific (which is TODAY!). I can tell because once a year we would take out two special wine goblets. You may see them on the table. One is red and the other is blue. They belonged to my paternal grandparents, who were also married on July 15th (many many years ago). That day we had a meal outside on our deck. Mattie's kiddie pool took up half of our deck and in the lower right hand corner, you can see Patches sitting on Mattie's sand box lid. The whole family was together. 


Quote of the day: Those monumental anniversary celebrations aren't what ultimately determine the actual direction of our marriage. Rather, it's the here and now. It's those daily decisions we make individually and together that influence how our relationship actually fares in the long run. ~ Ashleigh Slater


Today is our 27th anniversary, after dating each other for 7 years prior. Peter and I go back a long way together. This morning, Peter brought me up an hot tea (which he does every morning now that my parents have moved in) while I was getting ready and surprised me with a beautiful card and gift. This figurine symbolizes a married couple, but I told Peter that I have nicknamed it, "the survivors." 

Peter and I are indeed survivors of just about everything possible that can happen to a couple. Our list is long, and yet despite various issues and crises, we are together. Life truly has tested us on so many levels, but I strongly believe the fact that we started off as friends and dated so long, have helped us navigate our complex lives.  

July 15, 1995! 
Our wedding day was super hot and terribly humid. We got married in Scarsdale, NY at the church I attended as a child. We were married by the monsignor of the church, who oversaw my confirmation when I was a teenager. 

Our reception was at a country club in Rye, NY. Though the photographer took many staged photos (which I wasn't happy about), he did capture this sweet impromptu moment. 
Our wedding party. 





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