A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



April 16, 2020

Thursday, April 16, 2020

Thursday, April 16, 2020

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2009. That day I took Mattie to the Hospital's outdoor garden area. We paused to take a photo by the art therapy elephant. You will notice lovely tiles on the elephant. Tiles that were designed by children with cancer as well as the nurses. Do you see the Curious George monkey tile? That tile was created by Mattie's nurse, Kathleen. Kathleen created this tile and dedicated it to Mattie. As Mattie's left leg was humorously referred to as "Curious George," since it was the only intact limb, and that leg acted like an arm/hand. 





Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • number of people diagnosed with the virus: 658,263
  • number of people who died from the virus: 32,186



Between the impact of hearing about the virus and Sunny's surgery, I would say both are affecting my ability to sleep. I am also keenly aware of the fact that our Foundation's virtual Walk is a month away, and there are real challenges to raising money during this very unstable time in our history. Our issues are not isolated to us, as all non-profits are facing similar problems. 

I am on a quest to find as many of the psychosocial resources I can on cancer and the Coronavirus. The ones below caught my attention today. Despite that Cancer Care is an organization focusing mostly on adult cancers, their resources and supports are definitely applicable to all families and are quite comprehensive (emotional support, financial support, and informational links).




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