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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

April 13, 2020

Monday, April 13, 2020

Monday, April 13, 2020

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2009. That day, Peter and I took Mattie to the Washington Mall. Near us were ducks, and I had brought lots of bread for Mattie to feed them. An activity he loved to do. Every time we pass this part of the Mall now, we remember this moment in time. 




Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins. The map above illustrates coronavirus cases by COUNTY in the USA.

  • number of people who have been diagnosed with the virus: 572,597
  • number of people who died from the virus: 23,078


Honestly with all that has been going on, Easter was not really on my radar scope last week. Well that was until the end of the week, when I put into context the date and our reality beyond the coronavirus. 

Typically I don't bake because with just Peter and I at home, it isn't conducive to making bigger desserts. But in honor of Easter, we baked a fresh blueberry and sour cream cake. 
Our daily commitment is to go on a long walk. I did not think that was going to happen today given the threat of rain. But we journeyed out after a storm. You can see the Washington Mall looked like a lake. 
However, while walking, another storm came upon us. Literally there were 40mph winds, intense rain, and pollen flying everywhere. I had an umbrella, but that didn't help. I was soaked and the wind blew up so much pollen that I got into a coughing fit. I couldn't catch my breath from so much coughing.  Thankfully I am fine and allergy meds helped tremendously. 
This is the National Mall! Desolate. We may have passed ten people in total along our walk. 















I made this video for my friend Margy today. It is her birthday and typically we celebrate together. But given the coronavirus and Margy's compromised immunity from cancer treatment, only virtual connections are possible. 

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