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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

February 9, 2014

Sunday, February 9, 2014

Sunday, February 9, 2014


Tonight's picture was taken in February of 2009. During that time period, Mattie seemed to love cupcakes. As you can see from this photo, he popped a mini cupcake into his mouth. But the story behind the cupcakes was the following..... Mattie wasn't eating much at that point in his treatment and we were also trying to encourage him to participate in physical therapy to relearn how to walk. The incentive system that I created for Mattie involved cupcakes. If he listened to Anna (his therapist) and tried his best in a session, then his reward was a cupcake. Between hospital admissions, I would go home and bake two dozen cupcakes and literally cart them with me to the hospital on admission day. I don't know where I got the energy to do this, but when it came to Mattie, I found the resources. 


Quote of the day: Sometimes you have got to be able to listen to yourself and be okay with no one else understanding. ~ Simi Ngr



I am still under the weather today and have remained in bed all day. Peter captured some photos today of our snow flurries. It was quite a beautiful sight to see but what you can't tell is on the wooden fence and within these bushes are many, many sparrows. Hundreds of sparrows visit our deck each day and grace our feeders. When they are not on our feeders, they perch themselves in our bushes. Though this is the commons area of our plaza, I call these bushes ours, because Peter and Mattie literally planted all of them together. 


This photo reminds me of the 12 days of Christmas..... two turtle doves, but instead there is no partridge in a pear tree here!

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