A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



October 12, 2019

Saturday, October 12, 2019

Saturday, October 12, 2019

Tonight's picture was taken on October 26, 2002. Mattie was about to celebrate his first Halloween. Of course he had no idea what it this holiday was about, and we did not take him trick or treating that year either. However, we introduced Mattie to this walker early on in his development. We nicknamed this gadget, "tot wheels." Mattie loved the freedom of independent movement and would zip around in our commons area and inside our home. You would have thought he'd crash into chairs and furniture. But somehow he never did. Mattie had a good understanding for spacial relationships right from the beginning.  

Quote of the day: Cows have a higher body temperature than humans — about 101 degrees Fahrenheit — and their heart rate is slower, both qualities that help people relax. ~ Suzanne Vullers


My lifetime friend, Karen, sent me an article which I posted below about cow cuddling! No you did not misread what I just typed. I am literally talking about people paying $75 to spend time with an 1,000 pound bovine friend! It may sound ridiculous, but it is happening! 

The article even talks about how Michigan State University students pay to brush the school's dairy cows to reduce stress before finals. How do you like that? Apparently cows are smart and pick up on emotional cues. Who would have known. 

I have never had a hug from a cow, but I can imagine it would be soothing, if it is at all similar to petting, brushing, and hugging Sunny. There is something special about bonding with a bigger and warmer animal. No words are necessary, but still communication is happening. 

Now if a cow is too far reaching for you, how do you feel about a cat? Well in DC and Los Angeles, there is a company called Crumbs and Whiskers. Here you can pay $22 to spend 90 minutes petting cats and having coffee. You can even adopt cats from this organization. Here's the bottom line, at the end of the day, interacting with animals is A LOT easier than our fellow humans. Animals are naturally loving, want to interact with you, and accept you however you are! 


Cow cuddling lets people relax with help of friendly bovines:

https://www.today.com/health/cow-cuddling-lets-people-relax-help-friendly-bovines-t163117

In DC and LA:
https://crumbsandwhiskers.com/

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