A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



March 22, 2021

Monday, March 21, 2021

Monday, March 21, 2021

Tonight's picture was taken in March of 2006. Mattie was almost four years old. This was a very unusual sight in our home. Which was why I probably took a photo of it! Mattie never napped, he did not even like doing that when he was a baby. Therefore I knew then, as I do now, Mattie was most likely getting sick and had a fever. 


Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins.

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 29,861,457
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 542,845



Today truly felt like a spring day. It was in the 60s and the sun was shining. Even our amaryllis was happy. I inherited this plant from a friend who did not want to be bothered with it. So I took it on, and it is very happy in our living room. It blooms every year! 








In our commons area, we have a Mattie memorial garden. The daffodils spring up every year, and remind us that warmer weather is on its way. I call it Mattie's memorial garden because Mattie used to like to store his stones, acorns, and sticks in this spot! On every nature adventure, Mattie came home with a keepsake. He was a nature acquirer and after he died we did clean up the area and planted flowers and bushes in its place. 



Years ago, someone gave me a hyacinth. When it died in our home, Peter planted the bulb in Mattie's garden. It comes back every spring and never disappoints. 
I love the faces of daffodils. They seem so expressive. 

We maybe in the city, but greenery is beginning to pop out all around us. Definitely one of the best seasons in Washington, DC. 



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