A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



November 12, 2023

Sunday, November 12, 2023

Sunday, November 12, 2023

Tonight's picture was taken in November of 2007. Mattie was five years old and that weekend we took him for a walk on Roosevelt Island. This is a place we ventured to often with Mattie. Mattie loved being outside, was one with nature, and particularly loved climbing the rocks on the Island. It did not matter how hot or cold it was outside, we were out there in the elements. Prior to Mattie in my life, I did not enjoy outdoor time as much. But Mattie changed all of that for me, now like him, I prefer being outside. 




Quote of the day: Part of every misery is, so to speak, the misery's shadow or reflection: the fact that you don't merely suffer but have to keep on thinking about the fact that you suffer. I not only live each endless day in grief, but live each day thinking about living each day in grief. ~ CS Lewis


Tonight's quote is brilliant! CS Lewis captured living life with traumatic loss of a child beautifully. I do live each day in grief, and can't help but dwell about living each subsequent day in grief as well. I couldn't have stated it better. The highlight of my day was walking Sunny in the woods for about an hour this morning. It is therapeutic for both of us and I believe fresh air and exercise are important for Sunny's health. Not to mention my own. 

 

The Mattie Miracle Candy and Snack Drive has been a success. Certainly we aren't inundated like we used to be (pre-COVID) with candy, but the generosity of supporters is greatly appreciated. Tonight we received a donation from a fellow childhood cancer family! I removed the family's name, but kept the lovely message!
One stuck of items, which will head to MedStar Georgetown Hospital, Washington, DC!
This stack will head to Children's Hospital at Sinai in Baltimore, MD. 
This final stack will go to the National Institutes of Health in Bethesda, MD. We have Snack and Item Carts at all three locations and thanks to supporters, we are able to keep them fully stocked! 

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