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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

January 16, 2015

Friday, January 16, 2015

Friday, January 16, 2015

Tonight's picture was taken in December of 2006. Mattie and Peter were at Deerfield Beach in Florida building, not a sand castle, but one of their amazing structures. They could be at it for hours, designing moats, tunnels... you name it. Once the structure was actually built, then Mattie and I would comb the beach looking for debris to decorate it with. On some occasions, what they were designing was so intriguing that others kids would approach us and ask if they could join in! 




This morning Peter and I had the opportunity to meet with the Director of Quality of Life and Survivorship at the American Cancer Society. We met over tea and pastries. Which to me is the best way to meet. As of December, Mattie Miracle has been participating in a National lobbying agenda with over 100 childhood cancer organizations. Yesterday's conference call I as involved with tied into that work as did today's meeting. I always find a meeting that gets me to think slightly differently about things rather stimulating. It is hard as a parent who lost a child to cancer to think objectively all the time, but when I hear the guidance and advice from others who are invested in the process but who are not as emotionally attached to the subject matter, it helps.


Later in the day, I held a small birthday luncheon for my friend Ann. This is the seventh birthday I have celebrated with her. Though I have known Ann since 2005, we only began spending time together when Mattie developed cancer in 2008. All of the women, except for one at the table, had children who attended Mattie's preschool. It is one of the things that unites us all. In honor of the day, I made the flower arrangement for the table and to me there is something special about fresh flowers especially in January. 
pictured in the front row from left to right are Dawnee, Ann, and Ann Thomas
pictured in the back row from left to right are Mary, Catherine, and Vicki

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