A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



April 9, 2018

Monday, April 9, 2018

Monday, April 9, 2018

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2006. Mattie was celebrating his fourth birthday at Riverbend Nature Center in Great Falls, VA. This was Mattie's first birthday party outside of our home. That year we invited only a handful of preschool buddies to the party. Mainly because Mattie's preschool teacher said with this age group, kids can get overwhelmed easily. So it was better to have the same number of kids in attendance as the age Mattie was turning. So we invited four of Mattie's close friends to a dinosaur party, which involved a trip through the woods with a naturalist, a dinosaur dig in a sandbox, a meet and greet with animals like snakes and turtles, and a pinata and cake. 


Quote of the day: That no one dies of migraine seems, to someone deep into an attack, an ambiguous blessing. Joan Didion


Yesterday I developed a migraine and I can't say it is any better today. It is the type of headache where you just can't get any peace, even from closing your eyes and trying to rest. Rest isn't possible. So tonight's positing will be very short!

Migraine and all, I worked the entire day on Foundation things and of course walked Sunny. While down by the Potomac River with Sunny, I could see anhingas floating in the water. The anhinga is also called the snake bird, because of its snake like head protruding in the water. I saw many of these birds in Florida, but rarely in DC. Especially when it is so cold (as today felt like WINTER). So I felt this was a little piece of Florida coming to visit with me today. 

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