A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



September 14, 2018

Friday, September 14, 2018

Friday, September 14, 2018


Tonight's picture was taken in September of 2006. Each weekend we took Mattie to some outdoor park, trail, or experience. Being outdoors was where Mattie was happiest! Ironically, I wasn't an outdoor person at all, until I had Mattie. Now just like him, I prefer being outdoors. He trained me well. Got to love that smile. 









Quote of the day: There are three constants in life...change, choice and principles. ~ Stephen Covey


I had a very long licensure board meeting today. The kind that makes my head spin. One of the issues discussed produced two camps of thinking. We debated this issue for close to an hour. If I have all the facts and feel strongly about something, then it will be very hard to sway me. As a leadership style, I am guided by my principles and at the end of the day, though you may disagree with me, I have found people appreciate my logic and candor. I was told by our leadership today that they were impressed with how I handled this difficult issue. 


Some of my faithful readers may know that our friend, Tim, celebrates orange tie week every year around the time of Mattie's death. Tim wears an orange tie to work five days in a row and shares a photo with us daily. 

Who is Tim? Tim worked in the Georgetown Hospital office of development. Tim was our point of contact for philanthropy and we got to know each other well since 2011. Tim never met Mattie, but instead learned about him and his life through out blog and our stories. 

Though Tim no longer works at Georgetown, our friendship continues, as does his tribute to Mattie. 

So this was Monday's tie.

 Tuesday's tie!
Wednesday's tie! I believe Mattie would have loved this one because it would have reminded him of Nemo (a clownfish), from the Disney movie. 
Thursday's tie. 
Friday's tie reminds me of sun bursts! To me this screams out.... Mattie Miracle. One thing is for certain, Tim has one of the best orange tie collections I have seen. Mind you he rotates his collection, so I don't see the same five ties every year!!!

Mattie left me many gifts behind, and we consider Tim one of them. 

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