A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



October 28, 2020

Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Tonight's picture was taken in October of 2002. This was Mattie's first Halloween. Of course he was only six months old, so he wasn't going trick or treating, or wearing a costume. However, even at that young age, Mattie loved pumpkins. Not sure if it was the color (which was a favorite of Mattie's), its size, shape, or texture. Nonetheless, Mattie LOVED everything pumpkin. 


Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • number of people diagnosed with the virus: 8,837,688
  • number of people who died from the virus: 227,421


The polls in the District of Columbia opened yesterday. So today, we got up early and met neighbors at 7:45am. Together we all walked about a half of a mile to our polling center. Mornings are not my favorite time of the day, but I was fearing LONG lines and chaos. So when our neighbor suggested getting to the polling site before it opened up, we agreed. 

We have many neighbors around us who have lived in our complex since the 1970s! Of course as we age, completing certain tasks and maneuvering around the city can become more challenging. Which is why neighbors wanted to come with us today. We could handle the directions, the logistics, and also manage any sort of safety concerns that could arise. Unfortunately in the District, safety has become an alarming issue on all of our minds. Therefore, there is more security when traveling together. 

Last night, I literally pulled out a sample ballot and started doing research on each of the positions and the proposed proposition on the selling and distribution of marijuana. Needless to say, I literally looked up each local candidate running, read about them, their positions, and their platforms. Fortunately I did, because our neighbors had lots of questions this morning and I could easily pull up candidate webpages, because I had them open on my phone. I was a walking fountain of knowledge. 

Needless to say, by the time we got to our polling center, we were the third in line. There were NO LINE (even when we left), everything was very organized, the polling folks were lovely and friendly, and it had to be the smoothest voting process I have ever seen. I even got to see my ballot scanned and counted!  

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