A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



July 31, 2024

Wednesday, July 31, 2024

Wednesday, July 31, 2024

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2006. Mattie was four years old. That weekend, we took Mattie for a walk at Scott's Run in Northern Virginia. Mattie loved going to this park, and because of its heavily wooded nature, it stayed cool even in the summer months. I learned to love being outdoors thanks to Mattie. I can't tell you how many nature trails we traversed. Of course, I have no sense of direction, so my trail days are over, as I heavily relied on Peter to navigate, so that I could enjoy the beauty all around us. I just love this photo and seeing Mattie's enjoyment of nature. 


Quote of the day: I will never love another. Not like I loved you. I just don’t have the love for it again. ~ Atticus


It was another busy day. I got up at 5:15am, because I had a chimney professional coming over at 8am. In order to get myself ready, chores done, breakfast made, and my dad showered, it takes a lot of advanced planning in order to manage a visitor into our home. I am so glad I changed our chimney service provider, as the last company wasn't as knowledgeable, did not take the time to explain issues or give me a tutorial on how to turn on our gas fireplaces. Why on earth can't it be as easy as flipping a switch? One of our fireplaces requires multiple steps and lighting a pilot light in order to get it to work. I would never have figured it out without Kenny's help. For my local readers, if you are looking for a wonderful and competent chimney and fireplace specialist, I highly recommend Genesis Chimney Services. In addition, I learned that Kenny is very philanthropic, wanted to learn about Mattie Miracle and is interested in a sponsorship. He is our chimney angel for sure.

Later this morning I got a call from Amgen. After a three month nightmare of trying to locate my $1,500 co-pay assistance for Prolia, I think I finally may have resolved the problem. It wouldn't have been without my Amgen Angel, who is based out of Pittsburgh. I got connected to John at the end of June, after practically losing it on the telephone. I was tired of the run around and demanded a supervisor. In came John! John has been championing my case for a month now. I believe a check will be coming to me in a week. I would like to note that I just don't complain, I also write letters when people go above and upon to assist me. Today, I wrote just such a letter to John's boss! So TWO ANGELS IN ONE DAY! I view this as a blessing and I take them when I get them. 

 

This evening, I came home to a package on my doorstep. My friend Colleen, who I went to graduate school with and she was also a bridesmaid in my wedding party sent me this beautiful box of chocolates for my birthday. I am deeply grateful to all my friends who are trying hard to remind me that I matter within their lives. I am thankful to all of you. 


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