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Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



A Remembrance Video of Mattie

January 21, 2015

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Tonight's picture was taken in April of 2003. Mattie was dressed up for his first birthday party! Peter brought Mattie outside onto our deck where his birthday cake was... in order for him to blow out his candles. That particular April day was relatively warm out. Which was noteworthy because after that year all of Mattie's remaining birthdays were either raining or blustery. 


Quote of the day: I have always liked coming home and sharing what has happened that day with my loved ones. I like comparing notes. I know other people do, too. I think there is a human instinct to tell stories, no matter who you are or where you live. ~ Sarah Kay


Peter has returned home from his trip to New Orleans. I am not sure how he does it because tomorrow, he gets back on a plane and is headed to Texas. It is never a dull moment for Peter. While he was traveling around, it wasn't boring for me either, as I have passed two kidney stones in the last day. Fortunately I have experienced this before in October, so when this pain started yesterday, I knew exactly what was happening. Yet when it starts, you do have to wonder when will it end? 

In any case, as Kay's quote so aptly stated, Peter and I do like to "compare" notes with each other and when he returned home from his trip today..... we exchanged stories. Of course we have different styles and manners of doing this. Peter's is more calm and even toned and mine is more charged and emotional. When it comes to Foundation issues, at times I can fly off the handle, but Peter is an experienced listener and friend. He certainly can push back when necessary, but he also understands the overall stresses of what I am trying to balance and run not just from a work standpoint but from the emotional angle.
Which is very much appreciated!

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